MEN PLEASE HELP ....I WANT TO BELIEVE HIM..serious answers please?

Question

we were just friends. I didnt want to date him at first because i heard he was a player. then he wanted to go out .we did and it was nice.we continued to talk on the phone and go out. and then we really got closer.but i still didnt want to because i didnt like that he was still talking to his ex everyday. i used to get really mad at him and not talk to him for wks then we would be cool again. we never had s*x and he never asked me or forced me to have s*x with him. he told me he wanted to be with me forever and have his kids. he told me he was falling in love with me. he said he would do watever to have me.i didnt believe him. b4 i left the state for my new job, we really talked and kissed for hrs when he told me he was ready to be with me. now im gone and we text but he sends me stuff like "he really thought i was the one" "he was head over heels:" and he wouldve left everything behind for me. i talked to him recently and he says now that we are talking again he wants to make future plans and make sure hes not going to lose me again. ..i talked to him again last nite and now he says he will move to the state i live in..IS HE SERIOUS. SHOULD I BELIEVE HIM. I REALLY WANT TO. WHAT should i do

Answer 1

Telling him to move to your state is a pretty good test. If he does that though then you should be pretty sure about your feelings for him. Be careful though. In my experience, once a player always a player. Adultery and cheating is pretty common even if he does feel he loves you.