MEN...can you help a girl understand something?

Question

I've been wondering something for a while...maybe you can help me. What is it about oral s*x that makes it the holy grail of all s*x acts? In my experience you could have hot s*x with a man a million times, but if you don't perform oral that much the woman seems to be deficient in some way. Why? I'm not putting men down for wanting it...just really want to understand what it is about oral that ranks higher than typical sexual intercourse. Again...this is not any disrespect to men, I've just never had it explained to me and would really like a mans perspective. Thanks!

Answer 1

I'm a female and I'd LOVE to know the answer to this!   I just DON'T "get it", either; why it's so-o-o-o-o important!  NOTHING about it is pleasurable to a woman!   NOTHING!   More times than not it just makes the woman gag and want to choke the sh*t out of the guy for WANTING it!   IT'S DISGUSTING!  Ugh!  Men need to get a grip and find "normal" s*x more stimulating.  Maybe women would enjoy s*x MORE then.  NOW THERE'S A THOUGHT!!!!!

Answer 2

It's different!

Answer 3

Well to be honest i'd rather have oral than ordinary s*x, don't ask me why but you know as well as  do everybody is different. I just see s*x as a thing to do when you want children as that is what its meant for, but oral to me then is more for showing the person i'm with that i want to pleasure them and make them happy. Although some people hate it, i put that down to either they have never been with someone who wants to pleasure them as much as being pleasured themselves, or they just don't want to enjoy it.

Answer 4

I think men like it for several reasons!  It provides variety in the bedroom.  It's very intimate.  It involves the use of tongue, lips, saliva....which will increase stimulation.  Also, I think the very thought that their woman will do that for them is a turn on to them.  It can be used for foreplay OR if a woman is "out of commission" during that time of the month OR if you just want a quickie.  I'm all for it! lol  Don't forget about us women, Elphaba!  We like oral too!  It's give and take.

Chuck....you made me blush!

Answer 5

it is called domination.we like to dominate u.

Answer 6

Well personally I find oral s*x degrading - for both parties.  Speaking from the perspective of a g*y man, that is.  Although I think some men may find that a turn on (don't ask me why).  It may also be something to do with the fact that the woman/man giving the oral s*x might be willing to do that much for them.... I honestly am not sure on this one, but that's my opinion.

Hope it helps...

Answer 7

In my experience, oral somehow causes a slight increase in sensitivity. I don't know how or why or if that is true for every man, but sometimes oral is so intense that I can't stand it! I have also noticed that if I am "started" orally and then move to "conventional" s*x, there is STILL an increase in sensitivity (that is, it carries over)!

I, for one, am not the type that "has to have it", but I sure don't mind it. To say anything more beyond this would be getting too personal and too graphic! So, my final answer is, "Increased sensitivity"!

Answer 8

Oral s*x for both parties should be foreplay. I don't think anyone should do it to get an o****m.

Answer 9

I am not sure, myself.  When I was getting it regularly. it seemed to be no big deal.  But when I went with a girl for awhile who simply could NOT do it, it became really, really important.  Now that I'm older, though, and not getting it very much (don't know quite why) it still is no big deal.  No doubt it's another male ego thing.  What is YOUR attitude toward receiving oral s*x from HIM?  I suspect that male and female attitudes toward this are not all that different.