MEN:If your wife cheated and got pregnant, but had a miscarriage, would you still leave?Would you work it out?

Question

How would you react?

Answer 1

She needs to apologize, and you should really consider forgiving her.  She made a huge mistake, but who doesn't?  You two really need to go to counseling.  Don't give up on your marriage, try to work it out.  Good luck.

Answer 2

i would leave her. not only did she step outisde the marriage, she was pregnant w/ this guy's baby and had a miscarriage ( which is in effect she was going to keep the baby and pass it off as the husband's). how would i know she wouldnt get pregnant w/ anothr guy and try to lie and pass it off as  mine's? how would i know if we had problems she wouldnt go back w/ him? too many things to consider and i dont want to go down that road.

Answer 3

I'm sorry it would be over!

Answer 4

I would be pissed, then I would either leave or tell her to leave.

Either way, it would be over.

Answer 5

don't let any grass grow under your feet!!!!

Answer 6

Mine had it aborted and it was someone else's ( she refused to sleep with me for more than a year, the period of time she got pregnant). I divorced her after she had started the divorce....after 19 plus years of marriage. I've never ever regretted that decision and have a LT GF he respects me and who is loyal and I repsect her and I;ve been loyal.

Answer 7

i would say leave her.  think about it.. not only did she step out of the marriage, she went and had unprotected s*x with another.. she could have brought home a std to you.  sounds like she dosnt have respect for you, the marriage, nor herself to let someone else engage that way with her.  please find a women who has  100% devotion to you.  

Answer 8

I love my wife and I hope she never ever cheats on me. I married her since I had the intention to spend the rest of my life with her. But for a marriage to work, there has to be respect for one another. Cheating is disrespectful in my opinion. I don't believe in divorce but I just can't stay in a relationship like that.

Answer 9

Depends on whether she still loved me or not. But it would be a long hard road for her to convince me.

Answer 10

I would keep her and get counseling and raise that child like my own and if she didn't want that then I would tell her to leave.

Answer 11

My S/O got pregnant, did not have a miscarriage, had her son, made me think I was the only possible father.  Not until years later find out I am not the Father.  I raised him as my own.  I feel horrible like the family I thought I had was such a fake.  Cheaters are not any good, they just put you through misery.  If they were sincere and I had enough love in my heart I would give them another chance (that is my heart talking).  My brain would say, don't let yourself go through the pain of a cheater again.

Answer 12

I would ask her what she wants, then make my decision.