Well, my mother in law thinks she's the parent whenever she visits my daughter. I tried setting some ground for when she's over, but now I'm a push over. I am my baby's mother and she seems to think that she can just do whatever she wants to my daughter as long as her SON isn't stopping her. I had to stand up to her and tell her that she's unacceptable the way she's acting. She was so upset and called my husband saying I'm being uncalled for. As a mother, I feel I have the right to express my concerns regarding my baby, not hers!
How do I show her that what I say goes, and that if she's visiting and I want my baby to be in my supervision, she needs to hand her back over and stop playing fake mommy? She asks my husband what development milestones his daughter has reached and he's even unsure because he hardly spends time with her. He acts educated about his daughter, but in reality I'm the one who's practically a pro on her by now! My MIL treats me like I know nothing about parenting and that her son did all of the diaper changes, feeding, etc (he did none of that!)
I just want respect as a mother instead of being treated like I don't exist and like I'm not there while she visits.
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