Yesterday we were at my MIL for a visit. My daughter will be 2 at the end of August and she is pretty attached to me. I am SAHM. My daughter loves her grandparents, but it always takes her about 15 to 20 minutes to warm up to them. We see them about once or twice and once or twice a month or they babysit. So my daughter knows them pretty well, but she doesn't see them all the time either.
So anyway my MIL said probably four or five times. "Well clearly she is mommies little girl and I think mommy likes it, We are going to have to do something to fix that" I was appalled. I didn't say anything, because I didn't want to say something that I would regret. But I mean why is it bad that she is attached to me? I am her mother. She always get more comfortable, but she needs time. She is likely the only child I will have due to my medical problems, so I do enjoy that I am her favorite person. I encourage her to engage with her grandparents, but I am not going to force her.
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