There are all kinds of books, etc. telling us how to act while dating, etc and what kind of behavior is selfish and NOT healthy, etc.
There are so many opinions like, never ask a man the status of your relationship because that pushes them away. Or, never focus too much of your attention on him/her and have your own interests.
With all of this information and differences of opinions, how do we know if we're on the right track? If someone who we have a connection with is making an effort to be in our lives, don't we honor that if we want to be in their lives as well? SO many will say that if someone does not commit to you, they don't love you and others say that you have to be friends first before getting serious. Is there really one answer for everyone and one strategy that works best? Do you follow your heart? There are all kinds of mixed messages...Fear of rejection, etc.
What is your opinion on any of the above...
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