MY BF MARRIED HIS EX BEHIND MY BACK!!!!!!?HELPPPP?

Question

IF U LOVE UR BF VERY VERY MUCH, AND HE SAYS HE "LOVES" U BACK, AND U COMPLETLY TRUST HIM, BUT LATELY U GUYS ARE ARGUING AND HAVING PROBLEMS ABOUT HIS EX INTERFERING IN UR RELATIONSHIP, WHAT ARE U SUPPOSE TO DO!?!?! && SHE'S INTERFERING BCUZ HE HAD A BABY BOI W/ HER, AND ONE DAY HE CALLS U AND SAYS THAT, THAT SAME DAY HE MARRIED HER BY PAPER SO THAT WAY HE STOP PAYING CHILD SUPPORT, WHAT WOULD U DO ABOUT THIS WHOOOLE SITUATION? DO U THINK HE LOVES U?? OR NOT??? PLEASE WHAT WOULD U DO IN MY SITUATION!??! HELP

Answer 1

This guys a total loser....if he really didn't like her anymore he would have just ended it and kept it that way, stayed with you, and kept on paying child support like any real man would. He just married her so he wouldn't have to pay child support?!  Hello.. doesn't that send up some red flags? What so he thinks he doesn't have to pay anything now that they're married? What a goof , leave him , theres plenty of fish in the sea..really...

Answer 2

This CANNOT be a real situation. It makes me laugh out loud. LOL Ok.. so your boyfriend married his ex to avoid paying child support? If nothing else struck me as odd, it would be that his logic told him that getting married to this girl was better than having to pay child support.

I mean, child support is paid until the child is 18. With him marrying this girl, he put himself in a worse position. Not only can he not go any further with you than a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship but if this girl ever found out he was dealing with you, she could divorce him and he might end up having to pay child support AND alimony.

It shouldn't matter whether or not this guy loves you. He makes really, really stupid decisions. On that strength, he's not cool to be with.

This is the guy you "completely trust"?? What the he!! is going on in your head that you'd trust a guy, with such dumb logic and reasoning. Love him, ok.. I get that. Love is blind. Trust him.. uh uh.  

Answer 3

Get away!!!!!!!!!!! Quick!!!!!

Answer 4

  He would be A horrible man to raise A family with, if he will not pay child support for his other child...Leave him, there are plenty of other men out there.

Answer 5

He is a coward . Good riddance to him . Now go out and live . Don't mourn what you might have had .