my boyfriend is the oldest son in the house. everyone in his family, his mom, his mom's bf, his little brothers all rely on him on things from writing a check to booking hotels and rentals cars that my bf himself isn't even going. So basically he's taking care of many of the misc. stuff in the house. also my bf have no problem to pay for their bills such as dinner, phone bills, sometimes even their gas bill. He gives his mom like more than 500 of montly allowance, and his bros have no problem to ask him for gifts, even when i'm sitting right next to them. And i'm suspecting that my bf is hiding info from me about how he's spending on his family. I go to all their family birthdays and graduations. I did my part to buy them presents, but in return i don't even get a card. My bf been talking about saving up to get married, but I'm thinking how is that gonna be possible when his priority is his folks and not me? I feel that i'm not gettting the respect from his family at all.
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