MY SISTERS FRIEND!!!!!! what do i do? is this bad?

Question

well i am 15 but turn 16 in 2 weeks

and my sister is nearly 18 and so is her friend.

my sisters friend is a guy and he is really nice and recently i went on a school camp with him and i started to really like him!

my sister has lots of guy friends and its nothing more than that, but would it be weird if we went out?

i'm not saying we would because i don't know how he feels but if he liked me...

also, it is just a silly joke, but my sister and him have a little joke that they are going to get married when they are older and so he calls me future sister in law

even though they are just being dumb, would this make it more awkward?

by the way, they are only friends and won't ever be more.

my sister has lots of friends that are guys and i know they don't like each other like that.

honest opinions please!

thanks heaps =]

Answer 1

you never know she may be keeping something from you

i say talk to her first

but over all you theirs plenty of people in the world why bother with her friends especially is you dont know what they got  

Answer 2

MY SISTERS FRIEND!!!!!! what do i do? is this bad?

well i am 15 but turn 16 in 2 weeks

and my sister is nearly 18 and so is her friend.

my sisters friend is a guy and he is really nice and recently i went on a school camp with him and i started to really like him!

my sister has lots of guy friends and its nothing more than that, but would it be weird if we went out?

i'm not saying we would because i don't know how he feels but if he liked me...

also, it is just a silly joke, but my sister and him have a little joke that they are going to get married when they are older and so he calls me future sister in law

even though they are just being dumb, would this make it more awkward?

by the way, they are only friends and won't ever be more.

my sister has lots of friends that are guys and i know they don't like each other like that.

honest opinions please!

thanks heaps =]

DO YOU KNOW HOW RETARED THIS MAKES YOU SOUND?

Answer 3

I think your sister will hate you..Naw just joking

It would be wierd and now if you get the guy..Can I have your sister (Kidding)

I think this is a plain crush and You will get over it

Answer 4

If you are sure your sister and her friend are nothing more than friends (i would make sure they don't secretly like each other)...

and if you find out he likes you .. Go for it!

Answer 5

Excuse me "tree hugger"

go hug a tree and leave her alonee.

Ugh your soo rude.

Well hun In my opinion go for it but find out if they are crushing on each other.But if they arent it doesnt hurt to try..Just confront him and be like your really sweet and im crushing on you blah blah blah etc...l0l or flirt with him and if he flirts back ask a question like do you ever think we would make a good couple..we have soo much in common or idk l0l

Good luck!

Answer 6

  This tends to be a very situational thing that is best taken case by case. I would say your top priority would be to become close friends with your sisters friend (while not being clingy at the same time), and if it develops further go for it. The biggest problem with situations like this especially at younger ages is maturity level of the couple.

  Ultimately I would say see what happens worst case this don’t work, best case they do. I for one know it is possible as myself and my fiancé are approaching our wedding day and have an age difference of two years.

Best of luck either way!