MY SON 15 WANTS TO LIVE WITH HIS FATHER? ?
My Son,
he is 15 now ,wants to stay with his dad for good.
He does not get along with my husband and me ,because we had problemsin the past i was yelling and didn't know how to raise him in a balance way and my husband not his father was not very nice, the older he got the more my SON became angry and told use how mean we where ,when i say i love him he does not believe me and so on .I have changed ,and no matter how much i try, i can`t reach him .
i am very ashamed of it but i cant` change the past now he wants to live with his dad ,who has never been there for him .
I know that i was not the best Mom ,but i tell you this,this is what i knew how i was raised.Of course, now after so many years finally i realized that was wrong i understand now WHAT i`ve done .If he wants to live with his dad it`s OK ,iam OK with that but i don`t want to change custody let him stay for a while than if he want`s to come back i want to be able to have still primary custody .
I want to do what ever it takes for him to be able to come home i owe him that, and if he dosen`t than it`s OK as long as he is happy that will make me happy.
I will be sad i will see the judge in Sep 08 i just want to know would the judge be OK with that or HOW i do you ask the judge .Thank you
I know my foults as a parent ,
to sad i would want it that somebody would if told me befor my son was born i would give anything for that but sadly it took me very long to get it, that my way and my parents way was not good .
i cry , i cry, i cry and as a child growing up i cryed
never,i was close to my mom , my mom never was close to me.
look what my mom did to me that`s how i was to my son now he hates me for a good reasons i fell very bad "enough " the cycle has to be broken .....................
EVERY HELP, I THANK YOU ALL
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