MY WIFE LEFT 2 WKS AGO. NOW SHE WANTS CUSTODY O MY KIDS AND DIVORCE ME. NEVER WAS DOMESTIC VI0LENCE?

Question

I WANT TO WORK OUT THE PROBLEM, BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BECAUSE SHE IS INFLUENSED BY HER FAMILY

Answer 1

it takes a lot for a woman to make such a decision, even if she is pressured by her family, she had enuff willpower in herself to agree wit the decision she made, which is why she left u

and once a woman is sick of c**p and cant take anymore, and wants to call it quits, theres nothing u can do to change her mind

dont bother

she obvs doesnt want it

gluck

Answer 2

she may think there is no other way out of it, she also could be seeing someone else. find out where the problem is and try to fix it.

Answer 3

Yeah it could be that family are making her desitions, but also how was your marriage? you know domestic violence is not just getting phisycal its also emotional and mental.... think about it.

Answer 4

There has to be a real problem in your marriage and your wife has to be very unhappy for anyone to be able to influence her to take the kids and file for a divorce. She's probably been confiding in her family about being unhappy in the marriage and they have been giving her moral support.

Don't blame her family for your marriage ending. They couldn't influence her to leave you, if she was happy and you had a good marriage.

You said you want to work things out. There is a saying, "too little, too late." Maybe that's why she is done with trying and just wants out. Look at it this way, she was so unhappy that she felt she had to leave you, but she waited 2 weeks to think about the situation, before deciding to file for a divorce.

Answer 5

marty is right

get an attorney and make her pay for it

ALSO.. CALL THE POLICE WHERE SHE IS AND YOUR LOCAL POLICE SO THEY know she's wacked and they will be on the lookout for a call from her in case she wants to press bogus charges against you

Answer 6

watch out.

she left the home, and left the kids with you?

if thats what happened, she presumptively abandoned the kids, and she'll have to prove otherwise in court.

do NOT let her back in the home.

Answer 7

Why did your wife leave and did she have good reason to do so? Ask her if you and she can talk. If you need to get a unbiased party involved then do so. If she isn't willing to try, then I'm sorry, but there is really nothing more you can do. OF course you can always pray and if nothing changes then prepare yourself for an emotional roller coaster ride that is sure to come!

I pray God's grace will be with you and your family.

Answer 8

What a horrible situation, even worse when it involves children.  Glad to hear there was no domestic violence taking place, but did she give a reason at all?  Has she met someone new?  Have you been fighting a lot lately?  Working too much or spending too much time away from home?  I understand that you want to work things out with her, but you can't make someone feel something they don't.  If there is no way she will work things out with you, it's time to focus on getting as much time as possible with your children.  I wish you so much luck.

Answer 9

I hate to sound like a hater but more than likely she cheating..No woman will give up a good man (thats just me guessing )unless she think she has a better one .But what I can say about your kids . *FIGHT* dont just sit and let her take the kids go fight for them  judges will be very impressed if you show that you want them vs just saying ok take the kids . Fight for joint ..maybe 3-4days a week ..less child suport you will have to pay .Good luck

Answer 10

I am sorry to hear this. The only thing i can tell you is if you have tried working things out with her and it did not work give up on her and fight like h**l for your kids they are as much yours as hers and you have every right to them good luck and i will keep you in my prayers i hope things work out

Answer 11

Type in "Father's Rights" and start reading as to how you can fight for joint custody

Answer 12

You must have really blew it, sorry buddy no advice here. When a womans feed up there aint nothing you could do about it (R Kelly)

Answer 13

suggest counseling, if she say no then get a good lawyer. you say no violence what about emotional abuse is just as bad as verbal abuse. women can only take so much before its over. sometimes though they need a break for little while. hard to say whats really going on with her.