MY man treats me like a p**n star..he likes to release on my face?

Question

I like it but just not every time I do this....why can he just put it in his own hand or body sometimes....i told him this and he says im his lady in the street and freak in the sheets...why cant i just be a lady at all times and not his p**n star....

Answer 1

Get that stuff in your eye one time!!!  You'll know how to tell him to stop it.  

Answer 2

Nothing worse than a man that thinks the s*x is all about HIM.

YUCK!

Answer 3

you allow it.

Answer 4

It's hard to believe but some women like that i myself find it to be very disrespectful when your boyfriend or husband does that to you when he knows you don't enjoy it. You need to tell him that your his girlfriend not some d**n cheap p**n star.

Answer 5

Well if you don't like don't let him do it. When you know he's about to come then tell him "Not on the face." and move out of the way!

If this doesn't work and he keeps trying it then tell him it's just him and his hand for now.

Answer 6

Sounds like the problem is that you like it, and he likes it, but you have different desires of how much. Not so bad. You can deal with this. (Ignore responses that say you or he is sick, etc. You're well inside the ballpark of okay sexual activity.) But it's only okay if both enjoy it, either because you just like it or because you like him liking it. Tell him you kind of like playing his "freak in the sheets" but you want more variety in the freak and maybe that YOUR fantasy is to the demure miss who's seduced or that it's to sometimes have him play your slave or whatever floats it for you. Maybe you can think of something that's a hot kink for you that he wouldn't normally do, and you can negotiate some trading.  

Answer 7

that's gross I would not put up with that.

Answer 8

Just open your mouth!

If you really have issues with it, tell him to put it in your hoo-ha just as he's about to get it.  I guarantee, he will if you say it right!

Men are so easy!

Answer 9

Tell him to release between your jugs sometimes

Answer 10

Be strong ...If you can't negotiate...change positions and don't let him control the last strokes.  

Answer 11

You sound like every man's dream come through! lol! And you said you like it! So it's not a case as he's making you do something you don't like! We men and women alike get turned on by degrading stuff! Your man knows you are no p**n star, but treats you like one so he can live out his fantasy! The question here is he allowing you to live out yours? Can't be one sided! As for your problem, I guess it just takes practice to predict his time of arrival and move to suit or just don't do it until you feel you will be enjoying it!  

Answer 12

ewwwwww.... talk about no respect. He sounds like a loser.

You like jiz in your face? Gross.

Answer 13

you need to learn to set limits, besides he could also always come on your stumoc for instance

Answer 14

It seems that your man is not listening to your needs. I dont know how old you are but it appears to be a sign of maturity for him to not take your feelings nd thoughts in to consideration. A relationship is a give and take and this sounds like you do all the giving and he does all the taking. If he doesnt listen to how you feel, its a dead end street.

Answer 15

Your letting him do it so move your head next time.  He's just going to keep treating you like trash until you put a stop to it and demand some respect.

Answer 16

You teach a man how to act toward you.     A man will treat you like you ask him to.    If you don't like it, well then stop it.   Otherwise, he will do what he wants until you stop it.   It is your choice.   If you act like a lady, he will then treat you like a lady, if you act like a w***e, he will treat you like one.     It is in your hands.

Answer 17

Tell him to show you some respect because this is reality, not some adult film!

Answer 18

This is total foolishness yes you have feelings for him but there has to have a limit to your s*x relationship I realize you have feelings for him but you have to let him know that you do not like what he is doing and if it still happens then tell either release in his hand or no s*x if you don't want the relationship to end then talk it over or if he is not listening to you then girl there is more fishes in the sea and there must be one there for you and who will respect you also.Keep in touch

Answer 19

I think that is disrespect!  My wife can tell when I am "close" and she grabs a Kleenex from the nightstand!  IF she misses the clues and isn't ready I will let her know so she can grab the Kleenex too!

He needs to listen to you and respect you more than it seems he is doing!

Answer 20

Keep pleasing your man and he will always be there with you.

Answer 21

Its a dominance thing.  He wants to show you who is boss.

Answer 22

Oooohhh...so "your his lady in the street and freak in the sheets".

How original. Tell me....how does that make you feel? I'm curious. Seriously.

Quite frankly, p**n stars are treated better than that because they receive decent money. What do you get? Other than a face full of s***n.

My dear. Your 'man' as you call him doesn't treat you like a lady because you fail to demand that respect. For starters...stop saying 'my man'. Sounds like a cheap, Midwestern trailer trash tramp talking. Demand respect. If you don't get it then why respect him?

Answer 23

If it were me, and I were ok with it (OML, how could you be ok with it?!?), I'd explain that I don't mind it from time to time, but don't want it always and would appreciate it if he respected your feelings.  Explain that you feel like trash, not his 'lady.'  If he doesn't understand, hold out until he does!  You're the one in control here, not the other way around.  He can't get it if you don't give it, in other words, so make him see your point of view!

God bless you...Always!

Answer 24

Girl you are the one that allowed for himto do this. You should have told him the first time NO. Now you have made your the bed, now you have to lie in it.  

Answer 25

lol my husband tried it and i made it a dead issue.  

Answer 26

A man is only gonna do what you allow him to...

Answer 27

The very first time he did that by not asking you....you should've jumped up and slapped the living sh** out of him and I gurantee you he would not do it again.

You make your bed, now lay in it.

Answer 28

He a bad boy, no more s*x for him that's what I say maybe he'll learn his lesson.

Answer 29

First, realize you are a woman and truly can control s*x. Second, I like it too but like you not every time. You need to have his manhood in your hand and put it where you want it.  

Answer 30

because you let him treat you like that. you control the s*x not him. tell him no if he wont stop close up shop then see what happens

Answer 31

he has the problem not you. This a pefect example of why variety in the bedroom is imporntant.