Makin-baby-help!?

Question

i am married to a wonderful man and we have 3 kids, 2 daughters and a son and i would love to have one more child preferably a boy but whatever i get would be great, my husband seems like he would want another one too, he talks about it all the time but when i comes to wanting to try again he denies it and says no more! lol i am so confused! i know he is probably wanting another one but has so many thing on his mind like space and money, our house is a 3 bedroom and as it is our daughters are sharring a room...he keeps looking at other houses for sale around our house and street....

what should i say to him, i know we both want one more child but what can i say to make him feel that we can handle one more child, we don t really have a problem for money its more of a space issue in our new home!

thank you in advance!

Answer 1

Talk with him and let him know how you feel, and then if your both in agreement make a plan for a larger home and then another child.  Give it a time frame.  He sounds like he is a planner and wants to be set up for a new addition to the family before it happens.

Answer 2

The problem is not wanting a child, not of money but of space. If your husband has this same view as you do knowing that money isn't the issue, a bigger house is okay Then get a bigger house to accommodate this coming child. .

Answer 3

i think u shud sit down with ur boyfriend and tell him that u  dont know what he wants and hes sending u mixed signals..then ul lfind out for the truth then what he relli wantss xx