Making the first move ?

Question

Taking a pole, do you like to make the first move or do you prefer the other person to make the first move

Answer 1

if you are the girl GO AHEAD!!!!!!!!! GIRL POWER YAYAYAYAY1!!!!!!
but if you are the guy
go ahaed and make the move because a lot of girls are shy and it takes SO much preshure off her shoulders, I have an idea of what goes on in girls heads because I am one, and if I know anything some girls will want to take it slow, so if she says no it is most likely to not be because she does not like you, it will be because she just is no ready. or she REALLY wants you to make a move and will not reject.
so eather one of the sexes can ask
but a lot of girls are shy and so are the boys.
but just go for it.  YAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!