Male advice please! about a man!! help!?

Question

known him since I was 21 and lost contact! but years ago we used to meet up and really click. Talk about everything and anything for hours! until 5am the next day! once he told me he loved me but I was a bit of a ***** and we never got together.

Years on (I am 30 now!) as of tues!! and he text me happy birthyday! I have always missed him.....I actually said are you about this weekend? but its bank holiday....and he said ''seeing as its bank holiday, Im away for the weekend, but I am back tuesday we can hook up when Im back''

Im nice girl / woman (trust me) and dont sleep around etc and only want a future with someone special I can have a future with! not sure If I am 110% wanting marriage and kids like some women! but any advice you can give would really help me!! thanks x*x

Answer 1

Try it ...let us know

Answer 2

Go out for a coffee and a walk around town. See if you click and if anything's there.

If so, yay!

If not, don't worry about it.

You're now old enough to understand the phrase "It's better to regret something you do than something you don't".

Just have an enjoyable afternoon with an old friend and take it from there

Answer 3

PERHAPS HE HAS COME BACK TO THE AREA FOR WORK? AND LEFT HIS WIFE AND FAMILY ELSEWHERE, MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE WILL NOT SEE YOU UNTIL AFTER THE BANK HOLIDAY

Answer 4

Frankie, Did he ask you to have s*x with him? Or ask you to marry him and have his children?  You are way ahead of yourself. He asked if he could see you, Right. That's all. So see him and see how things go. You may meet up with him and no longer have anything to talk about, like you use to. Or you may meet up with him and sparks fly from both of you. Or you may meet up with him and just stay friends. It's been 9 years. Nothing stay exactly the same. Just go with the flow and try to relax.

Answer 5

I am with those who say give it a go with open mind. Interestingly I had a mate who was gob smacked with a breakup when he was 19. We talked about how special she was. I said if they were right for each other, they'd get back together. Surely enough after a couple year's maturity they did get back to one another, got married, and have two children.

"Sometimes dreams come true in the most madly brilliant ways!"