Malfunctioning woman/F.B.?

Question

What should I do, she took a half day Monday and came to me here saying that she had been "really mean" to her assistant and a "total *****" to a director.

She wanted to bake cakes instead of working so when Id finished we went to hers, she cooked for me and started baking cakes. I asked for an update on the cakes, and she had thrown the mix in the bin even though there was nothing wrong with it. I told her to start again and she did. The cakes turned out fine. Then she wanted me to "just hold her". The next day she told me that she wanted to try and go a week without seeing me and i laughed and said fine. The whole friends with benefits thing was her idea in the first place and now she is not handling it properly. Two questions, what should I do about my malfunctioning F.B? Why do women down tools so often because of emotional/hormonal problems, does this contribute to the wage gap?

Thanks guys!

Answer 1

women have a hard time being friends with benifits. i recomend having a f-buddy instead. don't hang out. just meet up, bang and go your seperate ways. if you hang out and bake cakes together, she's going to get emotionally attatched. if you want to bone a girl regularly and not be in a relationship with her, it has to be just about the s*x.

Answer 2

I personally would never become some man's **** buddy, as I know I am not designed that way and am just a little astounded at the women I meet in college who readily agree to such terms. I release a whole lot of oxitocin and want to bond, however that is the extent of my neuroticism! I tend to be a little more stoic when it comes to being a ***** to arbitrary co workers !

I am not going to touch your last question but realise if she wants you to hold her, then it has gone beyond the amelioration of a 'natural physical urge'. Women very often are not turned on by the physicals, we need emotions. She is evidently developing feelings for you and wants you to recipricate. I do not think you should be so stony hearted. She did what women often do, use s*x to get love and affection. But she is merely a little misguided. Try to be compassionate and empathetic. You have some sense of spiritual responsiblity towards her as a human being, even if you do not like her. She definitely seems stressed out..

I do not think the synedoche of the one woman standing for the whole can really say anything of the wage gap. You cannot make generalisations!