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Man became defensive after being called "sensitive"..

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If a man became defensive because he was called sensitive, wouldn't that prove that he is sensitive?

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  1. Yes, lol, but I was not aware that being sensitive is a negative quality.


  2. The other night my friend called our extreme tomboy friend "butch". She then punched him in the arm and said "Am not!"

    People are funny :)

  3. Haha that makes a lot of sense.

  4. Yes, and only an insecure man would react in this manner

  5. whoa, paradox!

  6. This is not paradoxical due to the fact that 'being sensitive' is relative. By calling someone sensitive, you are basically saying that they are 'overly sensitive' based on your standards because everyone is 'sensitive' to a certain extent.

    So by him defending himself, this is not necessarily the action of being 'overly sensitive' as an aggregate being, but only in the situational-dependent variable of being called sensitive.

    More simply put: This only shows that he is sensitive in regards to being called sensitive. "1/150000(a) = a" is a logical fallacy unless a = 0 (and 'a' doesn't equal 0 when it comes to sensitiveness)

  7. Hahaha Ironic reactions?

    Maybe, most men i know take it as an insult to be called sensitive so im not sure that is conclusive proof

    I would take someone acting "all macho" when you call them sensative as better proof

  8. It depends on the context and the non-verbal cues that the person calling names is throwing out there.  Most people might become defensive if they feel they are being attacked.

  9. You women read way too much into everything.  Just don't call the guy "sensitive" and drop the subject.  

  10. WTF man, I still say I'm not butch!

  11. Ironically - yes.

    Although he might just be defensive.

    Or it could be macho posturing.

  12. "Geez, don't be so sensitive."

    "I am NOT being sensitive! GOD!"

  13. Yes it is an oxymoron

  14. We were taught not to have feelings.  Emotions can be minefield for some men.  

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