March 09 wedding and big cold feet nothing is going good right now?

Question

we're fighting all the time and sleeping in separate rooms. the wedding location just backed out that has been planned since december of 07. nothing is really paid for, things are just kinda planned . i'm freaking out and go pick up my dress that i can't even return if i wanted.!? any advice?

Answer 1

Call it off and go on holiday together to sort out things, maybe the time is not right to be getting married.

I am getting married in June 09 and my fiance and I are both over the moon about it.

I think you need to communicate a little here.

Answer 2

OK SIT DOWN and explain and put stuff out then see if you two are really made for marriage . i mean marriage isnt perfect but fightin and sleeping apart really isnt int he package so.. i say before u get out of it and give up see if you both are made for each other, willing to work it out if you do get married and try to start over emotionally and together, and i say pray i dont care what religion you are .. pray ! cause marriage is sacred and dont go F'n it up (xcuse my FrEnCh)!

Answer 3

Marriage doesn't make anything easier. Get out while you can if you can't live together now it will be worse later. End it.  

Answer 4

call off the wedding, sell your dress on ebay or craigslist get on with your life