Marriage Advice: What Should I Do?

Question

Newly married to discover husband has e.d. what should I do? I love him but I didn't sign up for a sexless marriage.

Answer 1

Maybe you didn't "sign up" for a sexless marriage, however, you did sign up for better or worse, sickness or health... Support him in getting help whether it be the little blue pills or finding out what the problem is.  You didn't indicate your ages so maybe that's a factor.  Many medications will cause problems too.  Check everything out before you check out out of the marriage.  Do you have any idea how this might be affecting him?  I'm sure he feels terrible.  Be there for him.

Answer 2

Ummm if he knew he had it before you got married, then scream at him and you have the right to divorce him if you want, because he should have told you. :)

If he didn't know until after you got married, then well, I don't think it's appropriate to leave him for something that isn't his fault at all!  

Answer 3

he can seek help. There are meds out there for that. Does he have any underlining reason why? Health problems can lead to it also. Just send him to the doctor.  

Answer 4

Sometimes viagra will help, if not they make a medicine a man actually gives himself a shot of in his p***s, it really works better than viagra but is fairly expensive.  He needs to see a urologist if it's health related.  Sometimes a man can overcome it if it's emotionally related.

Answer 5

Buy the blue pills...what's it called again? ed should no longer be a problem...why did you not know before?  

Answer 6

Get an annulment. You would have legitimate grounds if you didn't know beforehand.

Answer 7

You married him for better or worse! Would you expect him to leave you if you got into a car accident and were paralyzed ?