Marriage Breaking Up?????

Question

My marriage is falling to peices and I dont know what to do. I'm tired and I dont think I can do any more.

Answer 1

Relax.  You are not alone.  Unfortunately marriages break up all the time.  The divorce rate shows that you are more likely to get divorced than to stay married.  How sad, huh?  Do you have any family around to help you through this?  How long were you married?  Do you have any kids?  Speaking from experience, you will get through this.

Answer 2

You really didn't write a question. If you want to try coaching it will help & you can e-mail me for info. I would coach you to look at the things you have & set goals to solve the areas that need attention & I would help you understand what you are doing or could do to make things better. There is so much you could get from coaching so e-mail me & I can help you lift yourself up so you have energy again.

Answer 3

Why is it falling apart?  You need to talk to a good friend, who knows you well.

Answer 4

Have you tried any counseling?  

Answer 5

Go out and have meaningless $ex. Always works.  

Answer 6

Unfortunately, when one partner or the other gives up on their relationship, there's nothing much that can be done, especially if you have put everything you have to trying to fix it. It's sad but some relationships just don't work out, no matter how hard you try. It sounds like you have tried, and didn't want give up right away. The only thing I can recommend is counciling or therapy if you haven't gone that route yet.

Answer 7

I will pray for your death every single day for the rest of my life you miserable old man

Answer 8

start worrying about yourself. do things for yourself. if he wants you, he'll see you ignoring him and want to know what;s up. if not, then you're already getting used to being on your own. things work out the way they are supposed to.

Answer 9

Please remember that you have made vows before God and being tired and frustrated is not a good reason to end a marriage.  You owe it to yourself and your spouse to find a way to make it work.  (Unless it is an abusive relationship or you have a cheating spouse.)

Answer 10

it won't work if you both aren't giving it 100% you cant row the boat alone. G/L

Answer 11

so sorry hun ' sometimes if it is broken. it is not worth fixing .

Answer 12

I am sorry to hear that. It might be a good idea to move to your friends or family's house for a while and then see how it goes. I think both of you just need a separation time.  

Answer 13

i am sorry to hear this as someone else suggested what about councilling,if there is still love there then it can be saved.good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Answer 14

If you have good health and a job to keep your self, you can do any thing you like. You are a woman, a flower, the most beautiful and desirable thing in creation. Go with your husband for counceling. Buy some nice s**y cloths and live as you want to live and demand to be treated as you wish to be treated. Walk away with your head up.

Answer 15

If you've done all you can or all you're prepared to do, then just let it fall to pieces. Stay cool, don't hate anyone, don't lose your self-respect, look after yourself, relax and let it all happen. You need a change in your life.

Answer 16

Hello E S, my name is Mark, hope you are ok.

Your question is different to all of the other questions you have asked recently (I had a quick flick through your previous Q&A's before answering your question).

You haven't given enough information for me or anyone else to give a proper answer. It seems you're mid-twenties and have had some issues regarding getting pregnant and losing weight.

Obviously we don't know you and so it's difficult to respond to your question. Can you say a bit more about why you think your marriage is falling to pieces? You've said previously that you are in love with your partner, so presumably you believe that your partner is no longer in love with you?

You've clearly been hoping to conceive but presumably this hasn't happened yet?? Sorry, I haven't read your previous Q&A's in great detail, please correct me where I'm wrong!

You've said previously that you've been overweight for a long time and now want to do something about it. Are you concerned that your partner might not find you attractive anymore or do you have actual confirmation that this is a problem?

The more information we have, the better we can make suggestions.

For the time being, I can only say the following:

Try to chill out a bit, problems such as these are common (and I'm not trying to diminish the importance you place on it because I appreciate it's your life we are talking about here), and there are solutions and new paths to be explored.

It's a bit of a cliche, but the clearer that you can define a problem, the greater chance there is of solving it.

I'll try to keep an eye out for further info from you. Try to be reassured that there are some people on here who can understand how you feel and can make useful suggestions.

Take care E S.

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