Marriage ended. still living in same house. need to feel better?

Question

Marriage has ended after 13yrs. he is seeing someone esle. Im not actually jelous of it becuase I wanted to end it a while ago.

I have no where to go so we are looking to sell the hosue but the defeicit (negative equity) is really scaring me. We would be in debt for £30k! Cant afford that AND living costs on my own Looking to sell house through one of those companyes that do a quick sale. Hopefully would be left with a deficit with £20k.

But on an emotional level, I need to feel good again. I am hurt that my husband is openly dating in front of me. He says he's just being honest,.and he is. But it still hurts.

I feel like I want to go out and do the same.. get a date.

any advice? Anyone been in this position?

Answer 1

Get yourself another man and move him into the house with you.  Between the four of you the rent would be cheaper and you would have time to sell it.

Answer 2

Find a man....and move in with him.

Answer 3

What is good for the goose is good for the gander.  Go out.  

Answer 4

just let time heal

and don't date someone cause your hurt cause you will end up hurting the person you are dating