Married & Divorcees Ladies only: Do you think that having lots of s*x will make your marriage last forever????

Question

be honest! and I don't want to hear about..how even though you gave him lots of s*x he still cheated on you. that's not the question.

Answer 1

No. My first marriage was based on s*x and physical attraction and then once we had children and the s*x slowed a little we figured out we didnt really like anything about each other and it ended badly. I am now remarried and although we have a decent amount of s*x, usually 3 times a week we also know that if we didnt have s*x as often that we are good together and communication will make our marriage last. s*x will not make a marriage last forever you need to have respect,trust,communication. s*x is great but it won't help a marriage that isnt already good.

Answer 2

Well, as you know, I'm not yet married, and hopefully I will never be divorced (because I don't believe in ending a marriage,) but I am a lady, so I'm one out of three, so I think I deserve to be able to answer this question. Even though I don't really qualify, I'm bored...so I'm gonna answer anyway....I don't think that lots of s*x alone will make a marriage last forever, but it will probably make both members of the relaionship less stressed, less tense, and happier because they fell loved and affectionate.....That's my view on it anyway. lol.  

Answer 3

NOPE!

Being married is about more then s*x. It is about being in love with your husband, not lust. s*x is only a part of a marriage, and for most people the having s*x all the time will fade. The only way to make your marriage last forever is to have a connection deeper then s*x.

Answer 4

No you will only be tired

Answer 5

s*x does not make the marriage, the 2 in it does. Both gotta work at it to make it last forever... s*x is a bonus, a great one at that!!

Answer 6

I doubt that having lots of s*x will ever make a marriage last forever but i have also never heard that having lots of s*x ever hurt a marriage either, so you might as well just have fun anyways even if there is no guarantee that your marriage will last forever right?

Answer 7

No. it takes hard work, determination and communication from both parties.

Answer 8

you dont just need s*x for a good marriage but my husband giving me loads of s*x would definitely make me happy

Answer 9

No.

What do you mean you dont want to here about how someone gave lots of s*x and the guy still left?  Your question asks, if you have lots of s*x with the marriage last forever?  Well, clearly, for those people having lots of s*x did NOT make the marriage last forever.

s*x is not the be all or end all.  Yes, it helps, but its not IT.  

Answer 10

no I don't think that having lots of s*x will make a marriage last forever...there is so much more to it than that.

Answer 11

No, s*x is only a part of the marriage, but it takes way much more to make it last. Compromise, keeping your mouth shut at times, picking your battles wisely, lots of prayer, maturity. and so much more. Where I work there was this older couple that came in and they had just celebrated there 60th anniversary, and I ask them how do you stay married to someone for 60 years? The husband said he just keeps his mouth shut and the wife is always right. He said nothing about s*x, But he said that his wife was his very best friend, as she was before they married. And he is still in love with her. Wow!!! Now that's what I'm talking about. I have been married for 14yrs and I can tell you that controlling that tongue helps keep peace and happiness, and treating my husband as my friend as well as my mate. And we don't have lots of s*x. But we have a very strong relationship.

Answer 12

NO!  

Answer 13

It's not s*x that makes relationships last forever.