I'm married but separated.. married 18 yrs but separated 6 yrs.. I still care about my husband very much.. he cheated on me 6 yrs ago while we were trying to get pregnant with his ex girlfriend and ended up getting her pregnant but while she was pregnant he asked me to forgive him because he said he made a mistake and was very sorry for what he did and I ended up forgiving him and we ended up having our first child a year later. But then he started spending a lot of time with his ex again after she had their child and we ended up drifting apart because of it and I ended up asking him to move out after 2 1/2 yrs of putting up with both of them. And now we have been separated again for 3 yrs now.. and for some odd reason I keep thinking he will come back.. But at the same time my hurt has turned to anger and i don't know what to do.. I know for a fact he is not happy like he thought he would be but I think he stays with her because of her mental condition and she uses that to her advantage. I know I need to move on and leave him alone but how do I let go of someone I still love and had a 20 yr relationship with? Right now he is still a part of my life because of our child but I don't talk to him like I use to.. He keeps asking me, why cant we be friends.. but its just too hard for me to do that.. What should I do and think about him now, knowing how I still feel about him? Where do I go from here? Some family and friends say to move on and divorce him but then some say to just see what happens.. they say he still does love me but he got himself into something he dont know how to deal with.. and for me not to give up on a 20 yr history relationship.. I really dont know what to do or how to feel????
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