Married couples only please.?

Question

If you could do it all over again, would you have get married? Why or why not?

Answer 1

Yes I would have.

I married a good man. We have had a wonderful 5 year marriage and I would not change a thing.Well...I would like him to learn how to do the laundry, but if that is my only complaint, I would say we are doing fine. I look forward to 5 more great years waking up next to him.

Answer 2

Yes!  I have been married for 10 years to my high school sweetheart & we are best friends.  We may be complete opposites & that has caused many, many arguments over the years...but I couldn't imagine my life without him.  He is the first person that I want to call on my happiest & darkest days...and every day in between.  It takes a lot of work & tons of compromise...but it is worth every second.  

Answer 3

certainly !

I love her and she cares about me, we are very happy !

Answer 4

Yes but would have waited until she was a bit older...9yr age difference between us.

Answer 5

Yes and no.  

Yes because I love my husband to death

No even though  I love him I see how he doesn't understand the concept of marriage. Instead of thinking and being together as one, He wants us to be two separate individuals.

Answer 6

yes i would ...because i love my husband.

Answer 7

I used to be married so I feel I am qualified to answer this.

No. Was not worth it. If I was still married, you'd get the same answer.  

Answer 8

Been married for too many years to remember and with the one woman, who is a great wife...But NO I would not do it again...Maybe after doing everthing for family for so many years I am getting selfish and would like to do some things for myself...

Answer 9

h**l no!!!!! I should have stayed single now I`am stuck and cant get out!

Answer 10

Yes i would have.

My husband is a very wonderful and sweet man who treats me like a queen.

I love him more then anything and he is my whole life and best friend.

Answer 11

Oh yes I would marry this man everyday! He's wonderful. I know that this is the spouse that GOD has made for me. He is that perfect fit for me. Not perfect just perfect for each other. When you consult God about the person your plan to spend the whole life with it makes a huge difference and when you KEEP God at the center of that marriage, well that is just everything.

Answer 12

yes i would but I would have waited longer than what i did

Answer 13

if you married the right person, you know the answer and the beauty of marriage.

if you married the wrong person, you have a chip on your shoulder and you would have asked yourself the same question as this person has.

my wife and i have our moments and that is expected. marriage is not the band aid for all wounds, in fact can be much worse sometimes.

but at the end of the day, seeing people our age going out and making fools of themselves trying to impress and 'rope' someone into their lives makes me so happy that i am not single anymore. my wife and i are 'clean' in that department, so there is no shame there.

we have our moments, but i would rather stay with one person i want and need in my life, the person who was meant for me...my wife.

Answer 14

If i could do it all over again, i would probably wait longer.  When i married my husband we only dated 5 months.  We never lived together before marriage either so i found out all his bad habits after marriage.  So if i had to do it all over again with the same time line, No I would not marry him!

I now know we are 2 differant people with differant hopes and dreams for the future.  The only thing i would not change is My 2 beautiful children we have together!

Answer 15

No.My husband and I were together at a young age.We never got to experience anything on are own.We fight all the time and we have even seperated last year.I resent him alot cause weve been together for so long(since 9th grade,im now 34 yrs.old)and we were so young that there was never any romance and still isnt.Im really taken for granted with everything I do.Sometimes I wish I had the chance to date at an older age with relationships that had courting and romance.But it is what it is and I take care of my family.

Answer 16

I like to think we are already pre-designed for each other. Through 12 years together there has been days where I couldn't stand him and many when I was so thankful for him, he is a blessing in good times and in bad.We we're there for each other when we were poor, we were there for each other through deaths' in the family, we were there for each other celebrating our children's births and birthdays. He was mad at me when I wrecked the car, but thankful I was OK. There's mornings' with breakfast in bed and time alone. There's also the days when the kids sleep between us-he IS my family. I believe it starts when one can truly feel that they have left their own family and started a new one with that special one made just for them-and acknowledge that person as being a part of their family is when you know for sure it was meant to last.Not for the next five years or ten but..for life. That takes heart, forgiveness, and wisdom it takes your all to accomplish those things. And those that truly love unconditionally will be able to say...  "Marriage to me is a commitment I take very seriously, I would marry my husband over and over again if I could. "

And Pharisees came up and in order to test him asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” He answered them, “What did Moses command you?” They said, “Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of divorce and to send her away.” And Jesus said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment. But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

Answer 17

Yes I Would I Love My Hubby And We've Been Married For Almost 8 Wonderfully Years

Answer 18

I would not change my life because I have learned something from every desicion i have made in my life. If I did it over the beautiful things that were once apart of my life would no longer be there. I rather lived through the h**l to have the wonderful things I do have today.

This is my second marriage. I got married the first time because I thought I was in love. I had a beautiful daughter and was left stranded at 6 months pregnant until I met my wonderful man (when my daughter was 1) who i married after  9 years . I married him because we loved each other at our best, our worst, through heartache, through sorrow, through mean mean exes. I would not do it over either time although first one ended in divorce..

Answer 19

No if I know what I know now, Life sucks when you stay with a jerk!