Married men with children preferably ?

Question

ive had 4 kids and my body has changed some i have stretch marks below my bellybutton and no there not purple but they bother me and also my breast has shrunk and no I'm not fat my question is I'm not sure if i want to get a tummy tuck more or my b***s done i really feel by getting b***s done it would make me feel better in the sac with my hubby but than again i feel i would also feel more confident in my bathing suit if i had no stretch marks now guys what you rather your wife get done boob or tummy and no stupid comments please.

and no i cant get both done im not that rich

Answer 1

I want a wife who when she looks at herself in the mirror she thinks she looks as beautiful and s**y as I think she looks.

And that's the truth.  s**y is an attitude...

Answer 2

In all honesty, I would spend that money doing something else.  Your body bears the inevitable scars (as it were) of child bearing.  I don't see why you would want to erase tham, or why you think bigger fake b*****s would make you better in the sack.  We are the way we were meant to be, and we spend entirely too much time and money in this culture focused on shallow things and on ourselves instead of others.

Answer 3

I would personally say neither. I understand the part about you feeling good about yourself. But what I cant stop wondering about is why women are under so much pressure to posses the perfect body? My wife has stretch marks, b***s that are not as they were when I married her. All this has been caused by a baby I fathered. I knew early on that my wife would change and she takes very good care of her wardrobe selection etc, and I love her to pieces with all her stretch marks, shrunk b***s. Any form of surgery is out of the question for us. We have worked on how to give each other the best sexual attention and we have a great s*x life and proud of her in the public. I cant advice you which one because for me, I would not want my wife to do neither. She remains my sweetheart.

Answer 4

I'll answer for my hubby. We have one baby and I already have small b*****s. We have talked about me getting a breast augmentation and he is all for it (though he says there's nothing wrong with them now). I plan on working on my tummy at the gym.

So, I'd say, if you want them both just as much, go for the boob job.

Answer 5

My wife pretty well understands that I think that, unless there's a medical need, I see woman who do such things as being slightly screwed up in the head. Maybe you had better talk to him first.  

Answer 6

If your husband doesn't care I would say do the one that makes you feel better. If you feel sexier then you will be sexier. It sounds to me like the tummy tuck will improve your confidence and make you feel better about yourself outside of the home. That confidence will translate into better s*x I think. In a few years you might be able to save up the pennies and get the boob job then.

Answer 7

   well...personally,if you were my wife...it wouldnt matter to me what you look like..id still love you no matter what...

       getting a tummy tuck and/or a boob job would be doing it for someone else...not yourself or me...so...who are you really doing this for ??...your husband,yourself...or for other people to admire ??...

         and having bigger b***s dont make you better in the sack...you'd be too busy admiring them then enjoying the love your giving and recieving....just my opinion of course..

Answer 8

guys are definitely gonna say b***s...come on they're guys. how about go for them now and closer to next summer when you would bear a swim suit go for the belly?

Answer 9

I don't think you should do either... see below.

"Because she bears the image of God. She doesn't have to conjure it, go get it from a salon, have plastic surgery or breast implants. No, beauty is an essence that is given to every woman at her creation." – Captivating by John & Stasi Eldredge.

Answer 10

Any man that loves his wife would tell her to do what she wanted with her body.  There is no better reason to have stretch marks or small b*****s than having children.  Make the "improvements" that will help you feel comfortable with yourself.  Not what you think will make him more comfortable with you.  If he truly loves you, he will love you the same no matter how you look.