Married people - do you ever get bored?

Question

I am married about two years and very happy but a bit bored with seeing the same person every day (four years in total) anyone else feel this way?

Answer 1

9.5 years. Bored is one way to put it. Mundane, monotonous, everyone else said differently, but YES, I am bored.

Answer 2

not at night ;)

Answer 3

Simple solution is not to marry someone boring, so no.

Answer 4

people who get bored are usually boring people themselves. hows that for an eye opener.

Answer 5

depends on your "boredom"... is it personality, mental, s*x, or something else???

not a lot you can do with personality or mentality... s*x can be changed though... :D

Answer 6

Define bored and what makes you feel bored ? If you have the answer to that maybe it will help you get excited again.  

Answer 7

That is because you are not involving yourself in hobbies, going to lunch with friends, shopping with friends, gardening, taking vacations, going to the movies, going out to dinner occasionally, making you s*x life exciting, etc...  Your life could be just as boring single, if you don't plan things to do.  You are the one that has to occupy your life.  You never go into a marriage expecting the other person to fulfill your idea of happiness.  You have to make your own, and be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.  

Answer 8

Sorry, I am never bored with my wife, maybe you should suggest walks, or  doing something together.

Answer 9

I wake up look at my hubby and feel like it's Chritmas morn almost everyday! Bored? NEVER!

Answer 10

I've known my husband for almost 7 years now, and I've never felt bored.  I suggest you to make events for the two of you..like go camping, have dinner, Las Vegas, or go on a cruise, etc.  

Go to Borders and pick out some books that talk about how marriage.  Or may be you should cook when you have time to impress your honey.  Try to cook something that he likes and surprise him.  He will love you for that.  

Answer 11

If you think the Grass is Greener on the other side, you are mistaken.

Make the most of what you have. Keep the love alive.  

Answer 12

when you have vowed to spend the rest of your life with your partner, where does boredom come from? whatever happens...don't cheat on him to get rid of your boredom...

Answer 13

Nope, not at all.  I would question why you got married then... you are already bored of your husband??  Not good...........

Answer 14

It's only natural, things tend to run in cycles.

Answer 15

If I was bored with seeing his face then I wouldn't be married. I love it that the first thing I see in the morning when I open my eyes is HIM. I love it that when I am home he is there to greet me with such great love. I love it that he just randomly calls me or message me throughout the day to tell me how much he loves me. Close to 9 years and I am never bored. I actually crave for me. Sometimes 24/7 isn't enough.

Answer 16

Sorry Hon We All Do.Part Of Life.....Dave

Answer 17

It's been four years and I still wake up every morning feeling like the luckiest woman. I know that's sickly but it's absolutely true.

And remember: the grass might be greener on the other side, but you still have to mow that lawn too.

Answer 18

Can't say I have.. I can't get enough of my husband. I feel like the luckiest woman in the world. He gave me a second chance when I made a huge mistake and I am so grateful and never take him forgranted. I love him so much its not even funny. I've been married for almost 7 years and not once have I got bored. I have to agree with the person that said waking up beside him is like christmas. I still can't belive sometimes that i'm happy as I am and that i'm married.

Maybe you two should go on a weekend vacation and see if you can re kindle your marriage. There was something that drew you to him and hopefully its still there. Good luck.

Answer 19

9 years together and NEVER will I be bored to see his face. It is the highlight of my day!