Married with a sexual addiction?

Question

My wife tells me that I am great in bed, but for some reason she claims that I may be addicted to s*x because I always want to make love anytime and that's not what I think about all the time either, but I think she may be right. I do want to make love allot and I may have a problem with that, but she is so beautiful and I love s*x. What's wrong with me?

Answer 1

lol nothing is wrong with you. my husband is the same way. men like s*x that's the way it has been and will always be  

Answer 2

You're male. s*x only counts as an "addiction" if it is negatively impacting your life (causing you to make bad decisions, wasting all of your money on it).

You are horny, it's normal. Your wife is NOT, however, under any obligation to satisfy you every time you get an erection. Perhaps she can take this opportunity to use s*x as a reward for you to do chores or something? Then you both benefit...

Answer 3

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SEXUAL ADDICTION! it's called SELF-CONTROL! Jesus we come up with any and every excuse...just control yoursefl!

I dont care how many thumbs down i get, it's true...People blame addiction for a lack of self-control!

Answer 4

Believe me when I tell you this, that your not alone out there. There are a lot of people who have an "Addiction" to s*x, but its a little deeper then that.

My girlfriend tells me all the time that she thinks that im a huge nympho and if it was up to me all we would do is have s*x on the weekends, every morning, every night.

What is wrong with you is that you seek affection and attention. I thought there was something wrong with me  years ago, because I swear to god, s*x was all I thought about.

You might want to talk to someone about your addiction that might require professional help.

Answer 5

how is your wife qualified to make that assertion? hehe.  it doesn't sound like you have a s*x addiction.  it sounds like you are hot for your wife.  she should be overjoyed that you want to have s*x with her all the time, and fine her so attractive.  believe you me, if she spoke to her female married friends about this, they would be dying with envy inside.  would she prefer that she never wanted s*x from her?  however, if the amount of times that you want s*x is an issue, come up with a compromise and try to see things from her point of view.

Answer 6

Nothing as long as you are not taking that addiction outside your relationship. You wife is lucky that you feel that way about her.  

Answer 7

Absolutely.........nothing.

Nothing wrong with a great s*x drive.

Answer 8

Nothing wrong with it. Perhaps you just have a higher s*x drive than she does. .. maybe you should talk about it more or compromise.

Answer 9

How often?   I think that anything more than every other day is alot, but at least you desire your wife.  People who have true s*x addictions do not care how beutiful their wife is - they want it from everybody.  However, if it is more than every other day like I said, you may consider the fact that you may be looking to s*x to fulfill your life in ways that it can't - but still, I wouldn't say it's an addiction.  You should discuss this further with your beautiful wife, she may be willing to be more intimate with you if more romance is involved when you initiate.

Answer 10

My husband is the same way. I don't think there is anything wrong with it!

Answer 11

Absolutely nothing, just you may need to learn how to please yourself occasionally cause it sounds like your wife doesn't quite have your s*x drive, chat to her about this one.

Answer 12

as long as you are only having s*x with your wife i don't think there is anything wrong with you. You didn't say how long you had been married. If your newlyweds that has a lot to do with it. Talk to your wife,  and i mean really talk to her about this. maybe you can work something out sexually.  Yrs ago i think it was in Erma Bombeck a woman had a similar experience. so her and her husband made a deal. Now this is going to sound weird but i got a kick out of. Every time the husband wanted s*x he had to put a dollar in the jar, and after 20 yrs. of marriage. they took the money out and took a trip on the money.I believe she said they went to paris for a week. See if maybe your wife would be agreeable to something like that for a shorter duration, say maybe 5 or 10 yrs and she gets to pick the place. Its just an idea. Good Luck. Hope this helps.

Answer 13

hey dont be down on yourself... you're a man... my lady always says that to me as well. i cant help myself when i get around her i want to make love to her at the drop of a dime... she has grown accustomed to it but there's nothing wrong with it...