Married women, do you have a problem with your hubby watching p**n?

Question

Personally I would feel irritated being with a woman who wouldn't "allow" me to watch p**n openly and having to keep it secret from her. Were guys after all, and most guys are into p**n, it's just how we are programmed.

Answer 1

I know, today all is alright to do. Let me just add, women like to watch a s**y guy too, does not mean they spend each and every hour on the comp doing so, if they do, I would say there is a problem, wouldn't you agree? I can see you are not a senstive guy and only think of self gratidfication. Please don't get married, if you do you will make one poor woman miserable. "He who lusts after a women with his eyes commits adultery". He wrote it, I didn't. Obviously you do not live by the  bible. P O R N exploits women. IF you truly believe in it, then do not be a hypocrite and allow your daughter to star in one. I bet you will have a problem with it then. HA!

Answer 2

I believe that watching p**n is wrong. And I would never marry a man who wanted to watch p**n while I was with him...If he has to look at other women obviously he's not satisfied, and no woman deserves that...basically watching p**n is wrong, and if you are doing it while being in a relationship you are just treating you wife/girlfriend like ****.

Answer 3

No, I have no problem at all for my dear hubby to watch it. I don't feel like it is cheating and never had a problem with it. He works and does things around the house, it's not like that is all he does. So doesn't bother me.

Answer 4

Dude, you should not have to hide ANYTHING from you wife. Not to mention not all guys are into pron either. Now, all guys like to see women naked, sure but if you have a partner that is satisfying your physical needs, you will find yourself not wanting p**n at all. At that point it can even come something you share with the the wife a little instead of hiding.  

Answer 5

unfortunately I would have a problem. I guess I would feel like I'm not meeting all of his needs. I wouldn't want to walk in on him while watching. If he does it while he,s away and I don't know about it then so be it. but not in my house unless its with me :)

Answer 6

If he doesn't do me because he'd rather do that then ya, it'd bug me... Otherwise, no...

Answer 7

Preach on preacher.

To all the women who are against it, would you rather let your spouse have an affair or watch p**n. Because if you deny him watching p**n and don't service him,  he will go get some on the side.

Answer 8

No i dont have a problem with this at all

My husband has looked at p**n a few times online in the past and it didn't bother me at all cause I'm not against p**n and i have too looked at p**n online a few times in the past but neither 1 of us has gone any sites in a long time

He is a hugh sports fan and 99% of the time he is at sports websites.

Answer 9

Most of the time, I don't care if my spouse watches it.  As long as he is considerate of me and doesn't do it when I am right there and in the mood (unless of course he plans on incorporating it in to US) but otherwise, it usually doesn't bother me.  The only time it has bothered me in the past is when they did hide it.  When THE GUY made it look like it is something he shouldn't be doing, then it becomes a problem. Don't hide it or lie to me about it.  I am not stupid.  That is when I get ticked off.    

Answer 10

I have a problem with it and as luck and grace would have it, so does my husband.  We both understand what p**n can do to a marriage and the unrealistic expectations that it creates, so we are content with our s*x life without the need to watch other people do it.  It's also against our religion - Jesus said to look at another woman with lust in your heart is the same as actually commiting the adultery.  I have to say I'm with Jesus on this one.

Answer 11

my wife let's me all i want.  

BUT

if i were serviced the way i wanted there would be no need...

to all the married women who hate their hubbys viewing p**n, GET A CLUE!

Answer 12

h**l, my husband and I have a drawer. We actually take turns picking out which one to watch because we have different tastes (my husband prefers the more teasing type like party girls or girls gone wild while i prefer a little more hard core). I will come home some days and find a p**n in the DVD player (and he does the same to me) and it make me giggle knowing what he did, kind of turns me on. We use p**n as an accessory (just like you would a d***o or a c**k ring) to enhance our s*x life whether it be outfits he sees he'd like to see me in or positions or places we would like to try. It's fun for us ... some couples light candles ... this couple pops in a video!

Answer 13

I'm not married, but ive been with my bf 2 years.. and yeah, it bugs me a lot!!! Especially if I'm there and he does it.. It makes me feel like he wants what he's looking at, and not me...

It makes me feel really insecure about my looks, and that he doesn't like the way I look

Answer 14

Yes, I have a problem with it. Guys are visual, I understand that & I make sure that my husband has all the visual stimulation through me that he needs. I believe that cheating is anything physical, mental, or sexually visual. My husband was very aware of this before he married me.

How does being against p**n make us insecure? I think this is very ridiculous thinking. I'm a great wife and lover, I have nothing to be insecure about in my marriage - I just have a different set of values than others do. In fact, if you've ever read up on most p**n stars, most of them have come from very abusive backgrounds and got into the p**n star life as a way to feel better about themselves -- how is THAT not insecure?

Answer 15

I have a problem when people lie about it instead of openly admitting it. When someone lies about it, then it makes me think that there is something else wrong or something else they are hiding...

Answer 16

haha nope doesn't bother me at all! I think i might be into it more than him :)~

Answer 17

I am not trying to give some big huge moral speech here, but does anyone find anything wrong with the porno industry itself.  I dont think any of you realize how destructive that industry was, is and will always be.  Hope you take a long look in the mirror and realize that lives and been destroyed by all this healthy ponorgraphy you all enjoy so much.  Do you think the p**n stars who are dying of AIDS jusst Love p**n the way you do?

Answer 18

Do I have a problem with my husband watching p**n? No. He doesn't watch it. WOULD I have a problem with it if he did? Yes. I think p**n is disgusting, degrading to women, and a huge disrespect to your wife.

Personally, I would feel irritated being with a man who cared so little about me that he had to watch other naked women in sexual acts to be satisfied with his s*x life. I should be enough. And, if p**n is the only thing keeping you from cheating, you have a bigger issue going on.

Answer 19

Don't worry about it, we are programmed to want to spend all your money....so most of us know the feeling!

Answer 20

I'm not married, but I don't mind p**n. I think the girls that do are insecure.  

Answer 21

my mrs telling me i'm not "allowed" to do anything wouldn't go over very well at all

and we both watch p**n... even make our own from time to time

Answer 22

I don't care about his p**n. He's very open about it, and I realize guys are visual creatures. But we're in our 40s, and it seems like the women who are horrified by it are usually much younger.

Us secure and mature women know it has nothing to do with US.

I always laugh at the women who are like "My man would NEVER look at it!".  suuuuure, honey, keep those blinders on!

Answer 23

The only problem Ihave with it is...My husband locked me out of the computer and I couldn't figure out why. He had downloaded a bunch of p**n. That upset me. Because he wasn't giving "any" out and it wasn't due to me not willing. So I bought him several dvd's and told him if he wants to watch it don't hide it. If thats what takes I would watch with.  

Answer 24

My wife doesn't have a problem with me watching p**n. I only watch it occasionally and she sometimes watches too. Only the insecure women have a problem with it IMO.

Answer 25

I watch it with mine and we demonstrate so to speak. Just spices things up. Now do we do it everyday? No. But we experiment and there is nothing wrong with that. It is not like I shut my eyes when I see a naked guy. We women are programmed just like that.

Answer 26

Nope it helps us. I do have a problem hubby viewing p**n and not realizing the effect it has on his kids. Private is where it belongs.

Answer 27

Nope I have no problem with it and actually I like to watch it with him sometimes.

Answer 28

Not really. It kinda irritates me when he watches it when I'm in the other room (because we can make our own), but if I'm out of town, then I think it' just fine. Sometimes we'll watch it together, it can get us going quite nicely!

Answer 29

i am a girl and i am as visually stimulated as the next man. i started watching p**n at 16 that i used to steal of my mum and dad. i love it and now i have the internet i love finding new stuff.

i am married but i have a high s*x drive and my husband isnt always there to have s*x with so i do watch it quite a bit when i am alone. we als watch it together and do webcam s*x together with other couples.  

Answer 30

Okay here is the situation if I am here I would want to watch it with him adds more spice if you ask me but if im not in the mood to I dont care if he does by himself,  if I am away from him for one reason or another I say more power to him.Heck I ordered my hubby a subscription to Playboy magazine I see nothing wrong with it at all.

Answer 31

I don't mind. I like p**n too. I like to watch it together or by myself. I would feel weird if a man wouldn't 'allow' me to watch p**n, but that rarely happens so why is that such a big problem for some women I have no idea.