Married women I have a question for you.....?

Question

Do you think it's okay for your husband to go to restaurants like Hooter's, Twin Peaks, or other restaurants that girls dress scantly clad?

Answer 1

I wouldn't marry a man who found restaurants like Hooter's, Twin Peaks, or other restaurants that girls dress scantly clad to be a place he'd want to visit.

I guess I just don't care for cheesy men.

Answer 2

Twin Peaks???  sounds great.. where do I sign up?  

Answer 3

I wouldn't really like it if he went without me, but I figure it's better than him going to a strip club. My husband and I usually just go to these kind of restaurants together.

Answer 4

sure he comes home to you.

Answer 5

he'll go, it doesn't bother me, besides i have bigger b***s than the girls who work there anyway

Answer 6

I used to think so but then i went with my husband. Its like families in there, kids and older adults. Its nothing more than any other restraunt just eye candy for the guys i guess. Even though me and my husband are no longer together I wouldnt have a problem with it.  

Answer 7

as long as you have trust there is no problem with it ,

go with him to these places,, hooters is a good place for both sexes,,  

Answer 8

That is such a good question because my husband just told me the other day that he was going to go to Hooters with some of his buddies next week for lunch and it made me feel a little uneasy. I'm not going to try to stop him or anything, because as a husband, he should know better than to go to places like that, that would show disrespect towards their wife. But, I don't have big hooters or a big ***, so for this one time, I guess I can tolerate him going. Just this ONCE.

And why do they only have places like that for men? Where are all the places like that for women. I want to go to a restaurant and have a buff muscular man with nice soft skin and tight muscle b***s serve me some chicken wings. Any places like that?? I don't mind if their shirtless either.

Answer 9

First let me say I am secure enough in myself to not give a c**p if he goes to places like this...

Second my husband has too much respect for me to go to those places. His motto is i am not paying for any type of s*x or s*x acts.. guess he is too cheap...

Some women are ok with it and some are not... it is all in what you as a person prefer.  

Answer 10

honestly if my husband wants to go that's fine with me...the way i look at it is if he's gonna cheat/flirt whatever it doesn't matter where he goes to eat it's gonna happen...i completely trust my husband so i'm not worried about some chic with fake b***s flirting with my husband to get a tip...LOL

Answer 11

I trust my husband very much so yes i would let him its ok with me!

I LOOK BETTER THEN THOSE GIRLS ANYWAY

Answer 12

Of course......you can't keep him in a cage.   I am sure he would appreciate you trusting him.   If he has never gave you reason not to trust him then loosen up.

Answer 13

I don't have a problem with it, but I trust my husband.  Plus, I go to those places too.

Answer 14

Nope, it's not ok.

OK?  =)

If my husband went, I'd divorce, life is too short to be disrespected, that's the truth.

My husband is a good example to our daughters and son, I'd never have anything less.

Let's put it this way, would most husbands want their wives working at such places???  I doubt it, so, why attend there???

Violet Pearl has a good answer.

Answer 15

Yes and no.

If we go together, fine.

But if he's going with his single friends, then you know they are all looking at the t*ts & @ss, flirting with the hoochies, and making their comments. He won't start the conversation, but if on of the single guys goes "d**n, she's hot, nice t*ts" or whatever, he'd be forced to agree and put in his two cents, otherwise he'll be labeled as a ***** or whipped. So yes, I got mad once when he went, and he hasn't been back since. (He just got take out once)

Besides, every time I've been there, the waitresses are real b*****s, throwing plates on the table and giving an attitude. Who wants to eat like that? Sorry, my tips are based on attitude, not t*ts.

Answer 16

No.

Answer 17

It's not a problem.  They have more cloths on than a lot of girls just walking down the street.  Besides Hooter's has good wings.

Answer 18

Yeah, why not.  I go to places like Hooters too they have awesome wings.

Answer 19

There food isn't good.  I don't think I would want my husband going by himself but I would go with him as long as he didn't stare or make me feel uncomfortable.  I think married men should act like married men and not go to places where the focus on men coming in to see them with not much on.  If your ok with it then there should be no problem with it.  It's up to you how comfortable you are with it.  There is no right or wrong answer.

Answer 20

I don't mind...Heck, I love Hooters myself  :)

Answer 21

I think places like that are just enticing to men.

If your husband really loves you and cares about your relationship he will stop going on his own without being told to stop.  

Answer 22

I don't care. If my husband goes, he and his stepfather will invite me and my mother in law. My mother in law and I always say "Have Fun, we are staying home!"

They can look, but not touch. They have more respect for our marriage than that. Besides, many movies show much more than what you see at Hooters!

Personally, I hate those places, but I'm not going to tell my husband what to do.

Answer 23

not my husband. he enjoys breathing too much. honestly, I dont think its right. shows lack of respect for his wifes feelings

Answer 24

I'd prefer that I go as well, but it is o.k. for him to go.

It's how he acts (before, during, after) that would or would not be o.k. with me.

Answer 25

Depends. Since I know my husband doesn't play around, I usually don't mind if he goes to Hooters with his guy friends (He maybe went there once since we've been together - almost 5 years now). However, on our honeymoon, we went to Hooters together because of chicken wings, and I didn't like the experience. He wasn't even looking around or anything, I just don't like to go with him to such places (I don't mind, however, going there with my girlfriends).

Now, if my husband wanted to go to those place on the regular basis, I think I would have a problem with that or I just wouldn't marry him in a first place. I don't agree with people who say, "you can look, but don't touch." Maybe to some extent, yes; but overall, no.

By the way, my husband thinks the same. I guess that's why we actually married each other.  

Answer 26

I wouldn't like it if it were a regular occurrence.  

Answer 27

I've never heard of Twin Peaks, but we go to Hooter's all the time. He has also gone without me, I don't care. They wear flesh colored leotards, or thick hose, under their shorts, and their shirts don't reveal any more than any other shirts these days.

Besides they have good wings.

Answer 28

I let him go...I let him watch p**n too, is no big deal unless he cheats on me. Now obsession with those places is totally different issue...

But i trust him, and don't stop him. The more you try to limit your man, the more he wants to do those things.

Be confident and secure in your relationship and things will usually go well.

Answer 29

even though i'm a jealous type,i trust my husband.so whether he goes 2 restaurants like these,it's ok.but i'll tell u the truth:maybe it's easy 4 me to say this because it never happens and sure never will.. my husband always says he respects me and he doesn't need 2 go to places lyk these...he have me.

Answer 30

Why not? They're not naked. The girls usually aren't even that hot. Besides Hooters has great food! (Never heard of twin peaks.) Now if he started leaving them outrageous tips everyday, I'd have to give him a lunch allowance - LOL!

Answer 31

I wouldn t mind .i trust him. my baby know what he s got . but when he starts going more often or start keeping it a secret  then i would suspect something . otherwise i am fine with it