Married women at the bar chatting with other guys? is this disrespectful to her husband?

Question

my wife and her friend go out drinking (which is kool with me) but they go their and guys start talking with them and they dont tell them to beat it we are married!!!

i dont think my wife should be at the bar with her friend chatting with other guys, if she wants to go drink play pool ect thats fine.

why cant some women understand this is disrespectful!!!

and i dont flirt or chat with other women out of respect for my wife!!!

Answer 1

If she is flirting then its disrespectful, but if its just the normal hi how you doin stuff then i dont see any harm, more importantly is the fact that you have to trust each other.

Answer 2

I don't think it is disrepectful for your wife talking to other men. She can talk to whomever she wants. You are trying to control her in my opinion. If she is not going home with any of them, I don't see the problem. She is married to you. If you love her and trust her put faith in her and your relationship.

Answer 3

Yes, it's disrespectful.

Answer 4

Is she wearing her ring? come on she can talk to other guys you dont own her. as long as she is bring her poontang home to daddy is all good.  

Answer 5

No.

Someone needs a hobby.

Answer 6

YOU SOUND LIKE MY EX,....YOU CANNOT CONTROL  WHERE SHE GOES NOR WITH WHOM SHE SPEAKS WITH..RESPECT IS MORE THAN SAYING WHAT YOU DO OR DONT DO OUT OF RESPECT FOR HER..TRUST HER..UNLESS YOU HAVE GIVEN HER REASON TO LOOK OUTSIDE OF YOU THEN BE WORRIED.  

Answer 7

There is no man in a drinking establishment that is just saying hello. She is in the meatmarkets. She is also married. I think that it is very disrespectful. I don't go into those situations without my husband. I don't go to bars or pubs period. Bars are bad places to be. Period.

And no married woman should be just chatting to guys. I see a huge red flag here...she won't even say that she is married...hmmm. That says so many things to me.  

Answer 8

Get over yourself. Marriage doesn't mean not speaking to another person of the opposite s*x again. You have some serious trust and control issues to work out.

Answer 9

When you can accompany him to the Bar, you can do anything which comes to your mind.

Your are the first to be blamed for having taking her to such place.

Avoid this, everything will be OK.

or

Keep quite - shut your eyes - let her do whatever she wants.

Answer 10

I don't think I would like it if my wife did that.

Answer 11

TALKING TO OTHER GUYS I THINK IS FINE.. AS LONG AS THAT IS ALL THATS GOING ON. ,ITS ALL ABOUT TRUST . SHES MARRIED NOT DEAD.