Married women only plz. a two part ques?

Question

Married women when you take care of business yourself, do you fantasize about ur hubby? Or a past lover, or someone u know or a made up fantasy guy/girl?

Send ques. Do you play solo or with ur hubby more often?

Answer 1

Someone I know, "forbidden fruit!"  Definitely more with hubby!!!

Answer 2

It varies really. Most of the time it's my hubby but other times I think of other things such as a s**y video I've seen or something. I play with my husband more often.  

Answer 3

ugh...hahaha lolz depends on how they feel...my hubby...=]]  

Answer 4

depends on the kind of marriage that we have. i am bonkers about my husband. it's not a perfect relationship, theres no such thing, but even when i'm pissed at him i never want him to stray too far. so i can only answer from the point of view of someone whose happy in their marriage.

i play with my man, but i definately play MORE by myself, and i play more intensely by myself. s*x is supposed to be really liberating and ur time to let go of your inhibitions, and it is, assuming that the other person isn't staring at you and is actively involved too. when playing with my husband, if i'm playin down there, and he's playing somewhere else on meor on himself, then thats good, cuz he's not staring at me so i can let go more. as long as he's busy doing something too i can play pretty comfortably. if he's staring at me playing by myself it would make me feel a little self-conscious (does my face look weird? do i look hot like girls in p**n? do i sound weird? is he turned on or amused?)

playing by myself.....i think about my babe in the sense that i really wish he were here to help me out, and those are generally the moments when i really miss his hands, his touch, his face, his-you know.

honestly, to help myself get to the point of no return though i usually imagine something that really turns me on. like....some guy taking a woman from behind and pulling her hair or spanking or something. i cant say i assign faces to these fantasy people cuz i don't really care WHO they are, it's about what they're doing. i only imagine the details that are important-the fact that she has hair up to a certain length. the fact that they're both reasonably physically fit. his hand on her chesticle etc. his face? couldn't tel you.

if i were fantasizing about a past lover-that would be bad because if i love hubby, i should be excited about our love and it shoudl feel like i upgraded. the past lover was like lover 3.0 and hubby is like lover 9.0. even if past lover was better in bed, the fact that hubby has my heart beats it out, and hubby should be way ahead in that race by now.

so...i either think about him, and go #@$% i wish he would bang me hard....now.

then next best thing, imagine two "whoevers" getting it on in the way i would like to be getting it.

and then for the big finale, i usually think about either imaginary person sploogie-ing on imaginary person #2, or i think about hubby sploogie-ing on me.

Answer 5

ROFL