Martial problems....?

Question

I have been married for 5 years and I love my husband. We struggle with bills now and money is tight. He has a problem, he is hooked on pain pills and he is spending anywhere from 75 to 100 a week on them. He usually comes to me and says give me 40 dollars, about every other day. When I tell him we dont have it, he gets mad.... I am so tired of borrowing money to just get by when he is draining us dry. I have tried to get him to stop. U have tried being supportive but now Im just mad. I dont know what to do. I want to be with him but I am considering leaving? Am I wrong? I just dont know what to do, please help! He acts so weird towards me. We dont have s*x anymore and now he hides his phone, when it rings he so secretive and he locks his self in the bathroom when he showers now. Am I crazy or is something up?

Answer 1

You two need to get into some counseling if you plan on making this marriage work. Something is def. up if he's being secretive like that. He has an addiction he needs to get taken care of, that is the first step. Good luck!!!

Answer 2

he is hooked..you need to get away until he gets help..maybe an intervention..

Answer 3

You are not CRAZY! But you are not all with it when you are giving him the money! You are supporting his habit!!!!!! What is wrong with you!

Turn him into a drug rehab or your never going to get your head out of this!!!!!

Answer 4

Tell him you're going to leave if he don't get help.  

Answer 5

You're only crazy if you do nothing about this.  Clearly something is up, he's a drug addict.  Get out now.  He is probably buying drugs from some bad people.  You should definitely leave and only come back if he goes into a treatment program, then you can possilby help him. First he has to help himself.

Answer 6

Tell him to stop or you will leave, and if he doesn't stop then you should leave.