Massages - arousal?

Question

does a female massuese treat this as offensive or just normal ? in a professional environment the Lomi, swedish or plain relaxation massages are "killers" for this

Answer 1

A masseuse would be aware that there are 'trigger points' throughout the body and that everyone responds differently. It is not offensive as long as you dont try to act further- just acknowledge the situation-perhaps make a little joke and relax.

Answer 2

gee's sometimes it just carn't be helped like in science at high school.

Answer 3

i'm interested in how a male massuese treats it?  Females understand it is to be taken in stride as part of physiological reaction to touch.  Has it occurred for you while under the treatment of a male massuese?

Answer 4

I would think she would consider this a "normal" reaction, and would only find it "offensive" if you were NOT aroused!

Answer 5

Well coming form a certified massage therapist; it happens.

Touch anywhere on the body can produce this effect... and simply by the body connecting touch with being a "Good Thing"; arousal happens.

I've had it happen to me many a time Haha & many female colleagues i've worked with; none of them have taken offense when it's been an accident as the guy has CLEARY been embarrassed about the situation and hasen't made any advances towards the massage therapist.

So it doesn't happen every time; but it's a well known "side-effect" as you may call it to happen in the body work environment.

If the arousal is simply an accident where the client hasn't made deliberate advances towards the therapist; then any therapist regardless of gender would be an idiot & unprofessional themselves to take offense to this occurrence.