Masturbation doesn't feel good?

Question

Okay so here's the deal. I am a 16 year old male who recently "experimented" with masturbation. Now, i have tried it prior to this but it didnt work then. Recently i tried and i got the same result. I went at it for like 5-7 mins. It did not feel good at all nor did i bust. My hands got a little sticky and the erection just went down. So how is this possible. Could i have nerve damage or am i not doing something correctly? Because i know as a teenage guy, masturbating should be my vice. I mean it really had no "feeling". Could it be because my interest wasnt there? But i would still feel it though, which is why i don't understand why i didnt. Someone please elaborate.

Answer 1

Masturbating isn't just something that is physical, it is mental as well.  Do you have guilty feelings about masturbating?, are the thoughts you think to become aroused make you feel good, guilty, or dirty?  Are you questioning your sexuality at all?  Are you in a place where you feel safe, and have plenty of privacy?  All these things can cause conflict in your head, and stress you out.  A stressed mind affects your body, and can create an inability to stay aroused.

I know some men that chose not to m********e because they do not feel the need.  Some men receive all they need from the person they are with.  This is also perfectly normal.  

Relax, and know that what you're doing is perfectly normal, and that your thoughts are your own.  Remember that just because you fantasize something doesn't mean it HAS to be, it can just remain a fantasy.

Try lube for less friction.

Answer 2

use lube

Answer 3

I thought exactly like this when i first experimented with it and you have to try not focusing on the base but lubing up the top and feeling around there. It worked for me.

Answer 4

uhh...deffinately did it wrong..

Answer 5

If your heart aint into it - forget it!  Try it another time when you are ready. The stickiness was probably pre-*** - 5 to 7 minutes wouldn't seem long enough, for one thing.  Use lube.  I doubt seriously that it's nerve damage.  By 'experimenting', it sounds like you're not really into it yet - like you don't really want to touch yourself that way.  OK, No big deal.  Wait a few months & you will be.  

Answer 6

don't just use spit...use hand lotion or if you don't even have any of that you can resort to suntan lotion...don't do it in the shower, and watch p**n if possible...youporn and redtube are both great sites that are also free

Answer 7

As others have mentioned trying lube might work. If you're on the cheap just spit into your hand or get some DELICATE shampoo. Other than that try p**n and remember that it isn't a vice. It's natural. You shouldn't try to control natural urges like that. If you want to m********e feel free to do so an if you don't, don't.

If you're friends are obnoxious just lie and realize they are probaly doing the same thing.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

hmm...try using some lotion and  watch p**n while u do it

Answer 10

Well, lol when that "sticky" stuff comes out your close to done. Thats really all I can tell you about that part. Here is my words of wisdom to you, Masturbation, without no intrigue, or brought on just to expierement, Will have sometimes no effect. When you reach that certain age, it will become a craving type thing where you see really pretty girls or something of the opposite s*x that exites you, then it will. Dont worry, just wait man, itll come.  

Answer 11

Seems like u did it dry. Try using some lubricant next time. There is nothing wrong with u.

Answer 12

You obviously didn't do it right.

Answer 13

Maybe you just didn't like it , you don't have to like it just because your a guy. Maybe you can keep trying , until you get it right.