Masturbation is BAD!!!?

Question

Well I cant really say. I just wanna play devils advocate for a sec. Guys, I know most of you agree that masturbation is ok, but if girls did it as much (or maybe they do) or proclaimed it so freely would you feel jealous if your wife or gf was constantly loosning her juices to other men? Also guys do any of you feel bad when you rake your bacon knowing that you have a wife or gf? Do you think that making it so ok would pose a problem with being faithful (physically) while in a relationship. Can it become a later issue (addiction) which would make it difficult to actually resist a woman who comes on to you, when you already jerk the gerk to woman on the net. Also as b4 wouldnt it make you scared to know your women couldnt stop masturbating to other men when she already has you. Would you get worried when you are with her and there is another gur she looks at who you knwo is better looking than you( there is always somebody better looking) Just a thought.

Answer 1

For men the release of s***n is a biological function that we cannot escape.  The desire to fertilize the wombs of every female 14 to 64 is natural.  The fact that we have this desire and yet (the better of us) stick to the woman we love is in my eyes honorable.  Jealousy isn't a factor there, if there is no competition what's the point in having a prize, right?  I have never raked my bacon while having a girlfriend, it;s not nessecary for me.... but if I did I don't see a problem with it.  Forcing sexual tensions quickly numbs the romance of seduction so going back to basics reminds us of how great the experience of sharing is.

As for masturbation forming a sexual addiction, the last thing on my mind after spewing a load is where to find a woman to have s*x with, and I am actually often left wondering why I spent the last two hours staring at pornography when I could have been done in 2 minutes and been playing video games.  

I take it back, I have masterbated while in a relationship, except it was actually about my girlfriend.........  

she was that good.  infact, as long as I'm thinking about her.........  

Answer 2

The whole point of having a partner is to have an emotional/romantic relationship (for the most part) which will most often lead to a physical manifestation of those feelings.

When a dude fantasizes about other women, or looks at p**n or something, he is only trying to relieve sexual tension, and in most cases doesn't have an emotional or mental connection with the woman, she is just a thought or pic/vid on the internet.

masturbating might also help PREVENT cheating, because with more relieved sexual libido you are less likely to succumb to temptation.

I know from experience that masturbation is nothing like cheating.  I know that the girl in the porno will never compare to MY GIRL, and i have no attachment to them

therefore, even if my girl does fantasize about other men, it's only natural, and i'm guilty of the same thing, which would make it hypocritical to get angry or upset

Answer 3

Wrong, dude.  Unfaithfulness is bad.  Inconsideration is bad.  Self-absorption is bad.  Masturbation is good.

Answer 4

Its good.

Like it said in the bible John- 5-3  " And moses rubbed his genitals until s***n came out all over Abraham's face"

Answer 5

i'll pretend i didnt hear that*-)!!!!

Answer 6

Masturbating is very healthy in boys and men alike, it lowers the risk of prostate cancer.  Hey its fun and ur not being unfaithful don't worry about it.

Answer 7

It's a normal and healthy part of life. Doesn't matter who your with or not with. If you have a partner do it for them. If not do it for yourself. The average man does it once a day with or without a partner,even if he still makes love to his wife. What's the big deal?

Answer 8

Solo s*x that safe fun and enjoyable.  Before the day is over I plan to m********e.

Answer 9

Masturbation is healthy and fun... Just because you m********e doesn't mean you are necessarily doing it to someone other than your partner.

Answer 10

no

MASTURBATION IS GOOD AND FUN