Mature men... how long would you be prepared to wait for s*x from your girlf?

Question

When i say a mature man, i mean a man in his 20's and up. (not teenagers, sorry)

How long would you be prepared to wait for s*x?

If you loved her would you be prepared to wait for longer?

What if there was a genuine reason... such as the girl had health issues in the past and wants to take it slow this time.

Also the girl wants to respect the relationship and make sure that the guy isnt in it just for the s*x

How long would you wait?

Answer 1

if i was really into her id be willing to wait for a while

but if it got to the point where we hadnt had s*x in over a year id have to consider my options

Answer 2

depend on what you mean by mature ?

loads of people are different. some men want s*x straight straight away

but i will wait for the right moment or until i fallen in love but thats me

  

Answer 3

I'm not a guy, but my man and I have been together for over 10 months and we haven't.  It's his choice, he wants to wait, so I'm cool with that ;)  Good luck!!

Answer 4

Good question my man waited 10 months.  But it was worth it and he knows it.  He came 6 times in one night, he wanted me all night, and still does :)

Answer 5

For me,l never know exactly what l feel for someone until l have got the s*x out of the way.

If your aroused by someone then it's difficult to know if it's purely physical,or something deeper.

So the answer is not very long,after s*x you instantly know if there is something more there,but not before.

In highly sexed countries like Britain,it can be tough to know what are your genuine feelings,as arousal can deceive you into thinking yeah,this the one,when in fact this is not the one

Answer 6

I wouldnt wait for a simple reason, you need to know your partner, you need to know her/him in almost every aspect, the good and bad things.

Why? Think about what happened in the past when people only had s*x after years of knowing each other and waited until they were married. They didnt know each other deeply. So what if they didnt like each other in the intimacy? They were basically screwed

So its better for a couple to know each other in bed and in everything else to increase the chances to get along in the future

Answer 7

until she is ready but i really wouldnt want to wait more than like 2 years

Answer 8

Well for me, its been getting on for a year what with my good lady wife not being up to the job for no fault of her own. Happy to wait til her health returns to what it should be!

Answer 9

If I loved her deeply, I would wait forever. Simple as that.  

Answer 10

Different strokes for different folks !

Answer 11

God, if mature guys are 20s and up. at 47, I must be the up one.

I would say, it has to depend, on the relationship, if it's just a dating kind of thing, then, a month, would do it for me.

But if it's a serious relationship, with perhaps talk of marriage, and I knew she had problems, then I would wait a much longer time.

Hopefully not too long. We are men after all.

Answer 12

like 3-4 weeks.