Mature readers only please.. I feel like a fake and not going near people

Question

Hello again. I have another dilemma. Please help me; I have a problem. I like to watch p**n. I'm a young adult female in college. I was doing so well but today I gave in. I masturbated to it using something handy. It hurt but I didn't care. I'm not sexually active. I don't date either. When I watch p**n, I pretend the people are this couple & I'm the woman. Most of the time, I don't think about it as me. It's not all physical though; emtions are involved too. How can I stop doing what I'm doing? Even if I do stop will this always be a part of who I am? I feel really bad. I feel the urge to tell people are else I feel like I misrepresenting myself. I'm the quiet, soft-spoken type. Most people would probably be SHOCKED. Please help!!!!! Thanks!

Answer 1

Masturbation is OK... as long as you are not hurting yourself or anyone else, there should be no problem... If you feel inside yourself that this is wrong you should pursue the reasons why... Only you know your background and upbringing and can therefor explore what your inhibitions are regarding this part of your personal life.

Answer 2

the only problem I see, is that you used an object that hurt. Everybody does it, so don't be embarrassed. however, you need to go to the Adult store,and buy the right "Implement" to do the job without hurting yourself. also ,if you find the right person,and begin dating,and having intercourse. your need for masturbation will get lower.

Answer 3

sounds like an obsession or a oppression from a s*x spirit.If you believe in God pray over it. I did and it left

Answer 4

  I am sorry you hurt yourself! There is nothing wrong with you. Humans are made with natural sexual urges. I am concerned that you have so much guilt about it, and actually hurt yourself in the process! Perhaps some counseling would be a good idea, and don't listen to that jerk who thought he was being so cute and funny.  Please find someone you can talk to, someone in a non-threatening compassionate place.

Answer 5

go out and get laid. a lot.

Any time you feel the urge to watch p**n.... go out and hook up with a total stranger.

Answer 6

Don't worry, this is more common than you think. I, myself, don't watch p**n I'm only 13, but I have seen more than enough questions on here about this subject.

The best thing you can do is just stop watching it. I know it sounds hard, but switch to a comedy (They pass the time and you sleep better at night...hopefully) Whenever you feel like giving in, turn on a comedy, and invite friends over. You are extremely less likely to watch p**n with company over. Although I'm quite a bit younger than you, I might request 'George Lopez' as a TV series.

Best of Luck, Brooke Jonelle <333