Maturity/insecurities in a relationship??

Question

My boyfriend is 9 years older than me, we are both adults and have jobs...I'm concerned sometimes, especially that I feel as though I seem immature to him and it bores him out. We seem to have a problem intellectually. I don't purposefully act immature--I act the way I do with my friends and family. Though I do feel insecure, even embarrassed sometimes, that *perhaps* I am too immature for him.

I guess I just want to know, if you are the guy, what changes you would like in this scenario? I love my boyfriend to bits. We've been together for 3 years now.

Thank you for answering...

Answer 1

If he truly loves you he accepts you as you are. He loves you because you're who you are.

Tell him about your feelings, ask whether he minds. I personally wouldn't mind at all.