my husband and i are currently staying at his parent's house while repairs are being made to ours. my sister-in-law and nephew ( he is 3 years old) come over everyday. he is allowed to do pretty much whatever he wants, and if he does something he shouldn't is rarely disciplined. my sister- in- law tries to discipline him AT TIMES and then my father and mother -in-law tell her not to. they say things like "come here baby" "or momma he is just a little baby" or they will seriously get angry at her for it. while all of this is none of my business, it is her child, not mine. i have to wonder about the future. my husband and i want children in the near future.i do not want my future children confused about discipline. i worry that they will not respect mine and my husbands decision regarding our children. i do not want my children to not be around them either, so what would be the best thing to do. i dont think i could keep my mouth shut if someone told me not to discipline my child. my husband and i are both on the same page when it comes to this.
also another problem i have is that i dont feel like our children would be treated the same anyway. my nephew has a bedroom and his own bathroom here as well as his house. the other four rooms in the house are already filled up, so i wonder if my child would be given the same respect. because i am almost positive they wouldnt make him share. this all may be stupid, but i needed to vent.
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