My brother is 17 and should be getting ready for college. He is doing the complete opposite. I know, college is not for everyone, but its definitely for my brother. He's rather smart. But he just doesn't want to go. But I know he should because he can do so much in life, but he refuses to see it that way. Well, I do love my brother, and that's been really bothering me lately, that he doesn't want to go. He thinks he can make a living playing guitar. Now I know many people have done this, but, i think and my parents think, he should do that on the side of a real job, considering only a few people have made it. And now he has some crazy idea of getting a tattoo. I mean, I want one too, but my parents really don't want him to get one because it will effect the way employers look at him. My uncle, being an employer, says if there is a tattoo person who can a job as well as a tattoo person, he would pick the tattoo person. So theres something else thats going wrong. And he wants to dye his hair blue or green or something. I dunno. But my parents do not like that. They are more worried about the tattoo, because its permanent. And as i talked to my brother tonight he said something about the tattoo, where he wanted it. And i said 'Are you really going to get one? I mean hat will you think when your all wrinkely?" he responded, "Hopefully I'll be dead by then. Hopefully." My heart dropped. I really hated him now, but i still loved him. Dead? I wanted to scream at him. I thought iI was going to cry.
The biggest problem is the not wanting to go to college part that. I mean my parents were never strict, never. We were never grounded, because we didn't do anything that bad. We don't have a curfew. I mean my parents really do care, but thay are not strict whatsoever.
Being the little sister. this is hard on me. Watching this go on is horrible. I really want to scream at my brother, because hes being very selfish. If he doesn't go to college, not get a job cause of tattoos, and end up sitting on my parents couch all day, (which may lead to drugs and what not), I may never forgive him. I'm really stressed about everything right now. I'm venting i know, but i need help. Advise? Coping techniques? Comment? Anything, I'll use it. Serious answers please.
~Lots of thanks~
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