Me, Him, and Her? What do I do...?

Question

There is a guy at school that I like and he likes me too (I guess). We aren't a couple but we have gone to a dance together as each other's dates and we have talked about going to a movie or something but it never happened... He still talks to me , we text, flirt.... And now his former girlfriend came to the school. She said they have been dating on and off for 2 years. We became good friends but this was before I knew that she even had a relationship with him. She doesn't know that I have feelings for him... I haven't told her yet. They are not dating (I think), but do I at least owe her an explanation? I am confused, what do I do? I want him to ask me to homecoming but I don't want her to be mad....... Help.

Answer 1

you get your answer here

Answer 2

They are exes and you were interested in him before you knew her so go for it!

Answer 3

that is a tuff one. i understand. Well, what you need to do is take things slowly. ask her if she likes anyone or has a boyfriend? Is she mentions her ex, then she will be upset if you tell her. check to see how she feels first about him and then ask him how he feels about her.

Answer 4

If she doesn't know your feelings, she has no reason to lie to you.....and now that you are friends if he asks you to homecoming, you need to say no - there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Answer 5

if you're friends with her, you should at least let her know how you feel about him. keep in mind that if they've been off and on for 2 years, it's probably going to stay that way. guys are jerks,lol, and in my experience, they play that game of getting bored with her, finding someone new, then going back..it's sad, but a lot of people's relationships are like that. i'd also suggest just biting the bullet and asking him straight up how he feels about you, maybe even before speaking to her..it would save you a lot of drama and pain..bottom line, she'll be mad or upset regardless, but it'll be 10 times worse if it's done behind her back. normally i'd say who cares? but if you're friendly with her, she deserves to know..but only if there really is something between you 2.