Me And My Bestfriend Got Into A Fight(I Need Advice)?

Question

My sign is Scorpio and she's an Aries.

We usually fight but this time I think I really hurt her feelings.

Here is what happened:

She is so annoying because all she can talk about is this stupid book.

So I called her yesterday and told her people who read that book burn in h**l and she can just go shove it up her ***!

Now she won't talk to me. I really don't want to end up never talking to her again.

I NEED ADVICE!

Answer 1

Tell her that you treasure her friendship and tell her that you are extremely sorry for that... and tell her that you would not hurt her... and assure that you can do anything for the friendship to sustain... you need to work on friendship... I had many pblms with my best friends... we always worked through things we are really good friends...

Talk with her... try to get some quality time with her... get her favorite icecream... everything will be alright... please let me know... how things goes.  

Answer 2

Wow. You obviously said something extremely harsh and unneccesary. It was a book....was it really worth getting into that kinda fight for? I don't blame her for not talking to you! I would try apoligizing- genuinely. Make her a personalized letter or card, and stick in a little gift of gratitude. Explain that you're totally sorry and would like to be forgiven. Let her know that if she can't forgive you, than that's fine, because you understand how much you must have hurt her. You might have a lost friendship here. If so, don't try to force the friendship on. Understand that its over.

Answer 3

You have a huge problem and she should stay clear of you. She deserves a better best friend. Yelling at her over a book and telling her that people go to h**l is wrong.  

Answer 4

First off, you should not have been calling other people behind her back.  This is known as back stabbing, and that is exactly what you've done.  Remember the old cliche? what goes around, comes around?  It's no wonder she is not talking to you now.

Therefore, I suggest you just leave her alone and go on with your life.  You should consider making new friends and stop obsessing who potentially may no longer be your 'best friend' as you've indicated in your post.  

Answer 5

Read the book yourself and then talk to her about it. She'd have to forgive you, and hey, maybe the book really IS that good! good luck!

Answer 6

Apologize to her and tell her that when you are spending time together you'd rather talk about other things than books.

Answer 7

wow that's a nice way to not put it, she loves this book  and no body she knows seems to know of it or like it, maybe she was hinting that you needed to stop fighting with her and get your butt off your shoulders and read the book???? people can't help that they like to read, she has every right to hate you and not want to be friends maybe that will show you how much that hurt her, i know you have something you can't stop talking about like boys " o so and so is so hot, he looked my way, o he touched my hand" maybe she got tired of hearing the same boring thing over and over again and thought heck i'll read a book.

best thing to do is see how you talked to her and tell her in person so she knows you mean it that you are sorry and that if she promises to stop talking about the book so much you'll stop talking about a boy or what ever so much and then things will get better or you could just read the book and see what it's about you never know you may like it.

Answer 8

dude u shouldve just told her thats just annoying

not shove it up her as* thats just wrong to say to a bff

Answer 9

approach her at her happiest...make the first move...you're her best friend,she can never say no to you no matter what happens...tell her you are very sorry and tell her the truth about what you feel about all she's talking about.don't keep anything from her so that no fight will come any sooner.in short,have a heart to heart talk with her, and try not to get yourselves into another fight.hope this helps yah..

Answer 10

1. star sings have nothing to do with it!!!!!

2. u don't deserve her.

3. U could have camley told her u would prefer if u didn't talk about the book anymore instead of sound like a spoiled *****.

4. she has a right to be mad at u and i hope she never forgives u.

If u don't have the common sense to apologize, then u aren't a very Good friend.  

Answer 11

well wow. I can certainly see why she won't talk to you. The best thing to do is apologize, and tell her that just because you don't like the book doesn't mean you don't like her. -need to clarify the separation there to her, as telling someone to shove a book - especially if it's a hardback - up their *** would be against her - not the book. Tell her what you were mad about, or say, "I'm glad you liked the book, I don't really care for it myself" and then understand that there will be other books, other events that will happen, and this will pass over if you're willing to make the apology- show up with lots of chocolate at her house, - no one can hate you with chocolate and an apology :)