Me an my dad.. problems.?

Question

okay well me an my dad dont get along. he doesn't hit me or anything. just. we dont get along. well anyways. i wanted to go to a different school this year. because im having problems in my current school =(.. well anyways. i was thinking of just transfering behind his back. (Sorta) i told him that i was going to switch an he made a big fight and is saying "YOUR STAYiNG HERE" i told him he didnt understand and i started to cry... everything is falling apart here and the only way i can get out of it to me anyways is to switch schools. i mean over here alot of my "friends" tell me to skip and the whole skipping school got outta hand. soon it was one day. then two then the whole week. and skipping one period became into skipping a whole day. my grades were the worst. and i even once sat in the bathroom eating my lunch.. i cried.. and well i just want new change. i want to start fresh. i already told my dad im not going to school here. he told me to Drop out. i dont want to do that. at all.. so should i switch schools anyways.?? i really need help.. im asking on here cause i dont want people to know over here anyways. i always act like everything is fine. but its not.. Help me.. please..

Answer 1

write a clearly thought out letter. that way, it wont be an argument, and you will have clearly though out your points

Answer 2

Why don't you try to get involved in different activities in school?

Why don't you get a job after school? If you are not old enough, why not volunteer somewhere? A local library? a soup kitchen, or a nursing home? or an animal shelter? This will give you great opportunities to expand your horizon- and also it will give you something GREAT to put on your future resumes!

Each school year can be a new start- and I know that most schools have not even started school yet, so are you already worrying this this year will be the same as last?

ONLY YOU can decide on how you are going to live your life, and just by transferring schools is not going to make life easier for you....

What grade are you in?

Do NOT drop out of school, that is a VERY poor lifestyle choice! People who do not have high school degrees do not get very far in life (that is...in the real world at least!)

High school is rough, and even middle school is rough, but you have to push through it! If you give up now, you will just be giving up on your life!

Life is so much bigger than high school, or even college! You have a long ways to go, and if you give up now, you will be giving up on the possibility of an amazing future!

Stay strong! Best of luck!

Answer 3

Why should he clean up your mess? You screwed up. Pay for it. Show some responsibility instead of running away from your problems. You knew exactly what you were doing. Do you really think a new school is going to change what you did? Man-up to your mistakes. And you can't switch school behind his back. That is illegal.  

Answer 4

Try talking to your mom about it.

Answer 5

switching schools is not going to help bring your grades up you probably will still be behind. I think you should stop hanging with these people that are making you skip school because they are not a good influence on you. You should start going to school and focus on getting those grades up you can do it!

Answer 6

your friends are weird. ><

isnt it a waste of money to

skip school? and plus i

dont think you should hang

with them.