ok. so i love my best friend to death! i honestly would do anything for her. we have been friends for 7 years now and i have grown to trust her more than anything and i love her more than life itself just because we have been thru it all together... But i am not saying we never had our downs. we have.. and so far we havent fought in almost a year thank god, but i have noticed that there will be certain time periods thru out her life, where we would become really really close and do absolutly everything together, and tell each other everything like what best friends do then all of a sudden another month goes by or she goes back to school in pa, or i dont see her for a week, and we start drifting apart, and then whatever i say or do I FEEL THAT SHE IS TAKING OFFENSE TO IT, or just getting more and more mad at me for no reason.. she claims that she isnt mad at me and isnt sick of me.. but the way she texts me, and then ignoring my comments on myspace or facebook.. and then switching me on her top friends all the time.. its crazy. yea i know it doesnt seem like a big deal, but it is too me. because i think i am one of the the only friend of hers that she switches around on myspace. i have her number one.. always have.. if she makes up wit her number 1 bff, or makes a new friend, she moves me lower and lower to her top friends.. i almost feel like she is embaraced of me and does not want to be seen around me because all her friends just dont like me at all.. for what? i dont know. i wanna say that she is using me.. but idk? its like she is embaraced to say that her best friend is kristine which is obviously me.. and one of her ex-bff's.. or still bffs.. idk if they are still friends or not, but me and her ex-bff's just dont get a long at all.. i mean she hates my guts so much because she thought i was trying to steal her best friend away from her which was not the case at all. but anyway, my bff knows that i cant stand her, and i can honestly say that when we have a conversation, it is always about her ex bff that cant stand me.. "so and so told me about it..", "so and so said this.." etc.. or "my best friend got it for me.. you know, so and so".. i have confronted her about this before and i have asked her why she is mad at me.. or is she mad at me or getting annoyed at me, and she claims and tells me that "im not mad at you. u just have to understaand im up at college, and im so busy i dont have time to text anyone. most times i dont have my phone with me".. that sord of stuff.. but, i dont know what to do, and she wentback to school 2 weeks ago.. since then, our friendship really has been drifting apart and i dont wanna loose her.. i cant! i dunno.. i need help.. someone help me please and tell me what do youu think the best way to handle this situation is? or how can i tell her in a text message or a facebook message without having her mad..
pleasee help.
ill take anything..
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