Me and my best friend like the same guy...?

Question

okay. well i have liked this guy for like a year and not really shown it or said anything to anyone. but then my bff started liking him. so i told her i liked him too. well we've both been talkin to him on myspace and at school.we went to the movies tonight as a big group. we both sat next to him.

he knows we like him.

and that we would go out with him in a second if possible.

we have agreed he is fair game but sometimes it feels like she is like cheating or hiding stuff from me.

what do i do?about the guy and my bff???

Answer 1

let her have him and go find someone even BETTER.

Answer 2

Depends on who you like more. If you possibly want to lose a friend ask the guy out. If not let her have him.

Help me if you can.

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Answer 3

One of my close friends was in this exact same situations

Well, really, you just need to tell her that if you both like him only one of you is going to get him and no matter what happens you want to remain best friends and just ignore your jealous feelings, and you never know, maybe someone better will come along.

Answer 4

He's fair game and the spoils go to the winner.  Is it worth losing your friend over?  If not, maybe you should be gracious and let her have him.  If the loss of your friend doesn't bother you, then go for it and ask him out already.  You will have to decide who is more important to you.

Answer 5

You can kiss that "bff" goodbye...