Me and my boyfriend argue alot mostly over small things and its always started by me is that bad?

Question

Me and my boyfriend argue alot mostly over small things and its always started by me is that bad?

Answer 1

yeah, its bad.

just let go of the little things.. and hopefully it will get better.

: )

Answer 2

ask yourself why you feel the need to argue.

Is it that important to be right?  If you can't get past that, then you probably won't have much success with relationships.

relationships aren't about who's right or wrong- it's about valuing the other person, letting them know they matter more than the little things.

being able to agree to disagree.

Answer 3

It's not bad at all.I also have that kind of problem,but if it bothers you ignore small things that you don't like and wait if your boyfriend says it instead. Just tell him how you feel.

Answer 4

Me and my boyfriend also argue over little things and it seems i'm the one who always says something about it but i'm the one who gets upset about it. It's good to argue but now i'm trying not to complain about things because I don't want him to think i'm annoying.

Answer 5

Yes this is very bad because no one wants to have a nagging girlfriend. I had the same issue with my boyfriend and I had to remember to pick and choose my battles and let go of the little things.  

Answer 6

Sometimes negative attention is better than no attention.  It sounds like the two of you have a communication problem and even though you're arguing, it's a form of communication.

I dated a guy once who was very quiet and easy going and after awhile it started driving me crazy.  I knew if I could get him agitated and start an argument, I would at least have his attention for a little while.  It ended up that's all we did and although we genuinely liked each other, it was just one of those matches that didn't work.

Maybe this guy is not for you!