Me and my brother always fight?

Question

he always calls me stupid and yells, it's so scary

but anyways we always make up after not talking for MONTHS but then it happens AGAIN

when we are not fighting it fun for the both of us\

but what should i do? he makes me so mad

sorry if this is more of a rant than a question

Answer 1

Girl, this is totally normal! Don't worry a bit about it.  I fought so much with my two brothers when we were living with my parents.  It is just a natural part of life.  Everyone fights with their siblings.  It is good that you make up in the end.  Maybe try to make other friends and spent more time with them, that way, you will keep out of each others' hair!  Best wishes:-)

Answer 2

I wouldn't worry about it too much. It's honestly normal. My brother and I would fight nonstop as kids. And believe me, we've said worse things to each other other than just "stupid" and have a few arguments. But since our mid/late teens, we started getting along much better (I'm 17 and he's 19). We just needed to mature and grow up a little.

But maybe the next time you and your brother start to have an argument, you could just cool off before saying things you guys don't mean, than talk later. It seems to work for me. Good luck! =]

Answer 3

This is a problem that my sisters and I have been dealing with for over 20 years. Its never OK between all THREE of us. One is always bickering with another... And it doesn't help when you're all stubborn/proud to be the first to spark up conversation again. Right now I'm not speaking to my older sister, but I'm good with my younger sister. My older sister isn't speaking to my younger sister. It's really a hard balancing act, but coming from a brother's point of view, I think we're usually a lot more sensitive about things than you think. And we're angry because we care, otherwise it wouldn't matter and you'd never argue.