Me and my dad have been fighting alot and i don't know why!I can't talk to him about it either what should do?

Question

Me and my dad have been fighting alot and i don't know why!I can't talk to him about it either what should do?

Answer 1

You wont be able to get this sorted out unless you communicate, it's the only way to solve these sort of problems... try talk to him when you are both calm and relaxed..then bring it up in a nice way , not in an accusing way , remember you both play a part in this whole issue. I really believe it's important that you talk this through with him because if it goes on for a long time then it will be harderr to get it sorted.

Answer 2

I have a father who is just like that. Did you ever get along? If you did then think about the differences between the relationship now and then. If you can't find any then you are probably provoking it. It may be something stupid that makes him mad...but here is one difference for sure between now and when you were younger...try and always make your dad proud. Don't make him want to pitty you..make him want to be proud of you. After behaving really well for a while then very maturly and un-whining-ish talk to him about whatever you attempted before... do it cautiously and if you notice he is getting a little annoyed or angry stop and change what you were saying...or just stop if you think he'll think it's stupid. If you just act mature and responsible and your age he is sure to like you better.  

Answer 3

You wouldn't happen to be moving away to college or something like that?