Me and my ex a a big fight, and it feels really over this time, but i cant let go, what should i do?

Question

me and my ex have been together for 10 months, we've broken up twice, but this time seems like the real thing, this fight was really nasty. i miss him more than anything in the world and i dont know what to do, we both have things that we need to work on, and im wondering if a) i should email him and apologize for the mean things i said to him and b) if there is a chance we are getting back together. he tells me all the time how i mean the world to him, and he does to me, so i dont know what to do anymore.

Answer 1

Haha ... are you ME? That sounds like what just happened with my ex and I. Although he text messaged me today, I'm not going to read a lot into it, because if he wanted to see me, he should tell me, and not play games or leave me to guess. Maybe it is over - for you and me both, but I can't overanalyze it. I can just believe that if you and him ... or him and I were to be together, you'd make it work out in the end. Why? Because you have the desire to. If it's not a good, healthy relationship, you might want to think about that, though. At first a break up is so hard--it's crazy! But over time, you start to get your smarts back and realize some things. Then again, you may grow deeper in love with him and you guys will make it work. Time is the only thing that will tell.

Answer 2

Change is so hard!  Time will heal this, try and keep busy.  Make new friends.  Maybe you will meet someone you can get along with better.  xox

Answer 3

well i guess just start off by thinking about what the fight was over and who started it.

i think that in any fight (in a relationship) the person to start it should be the one to apologize.

just give your self's some time to think and work out in your head and in your heart on what you really want and if you both still want each other than work things out.

me and my boyfriend have had big fight with-in the past 2 years but never actually broken up.

i wasn't thinking and tried calling "us" off but he wouldn't leave until after i talk to him.

so just talk and talk until you both come to an understanding.

best way i think to work things out.

let him cool off and think then talk to him and apologize

god luck.

my boyfriend always tells me i mean the world to him too =)

i think he really cares for you!

Answer 4

talk it over and be kind to one another, treat him like a girlfriend,  kindness goes a long way and have some fun together. why are you so angry??? laugh and laugh some more.

Answer 5

I know its hard to let go but this obviously isn't working for both of you maybe give it some time to try and move on don't call right now anyway you both need time to think give it a week or so and think about all the other guys.. every relationship has fights but to what extent or degree you have to think about life after him and how you'll feel when your over him... if you truly love him tell him and you could talk things out if problems consist maybe your not supposed to be together or you could try councilling.

It will work out I promise!

Good luck!