Me and my friend are having an arguement he tried to barge into my house at 8am when i was asleep ?

Question

but the door was locked. I freaked out at him because if the door was unlocked and i woke up with someone unannounced over me (i live alone) I would have reacted and not even realise what was going on untill after, no hes mad i said that and takes it as a threat. What do people think. I am in the right arent I? and isnt a reasonable thing to warn someone as to why thats not a good idea? Im the type of person that doesnt wake up instantly im outta it for a few minutes usually

Answer 1

i did not understand anything other than he attempted to barge into your house?

and you happened to be asleep, and the door was locked.

i really dont think that is a real problem.

OMG, when you have a REAAAL problem, yahooanswers is here.

but other than thatt, ppl dont care if you would have made a fool outta yourself, if he did come in.

SHEESH.

Answer 2

seriously, that was a good idea of yours, i would've done the same thing. you should tell him " you would've done the same exact thing" is gets mad still, haha, ask him if he still is when one of your friends gets up to from you two for a while . if he says he's still mad, when your friends comes back, in front of a friend tell him the situation and see what they think.

bottom line, you're in the right and even if he had a problem, barging in someone's house is still creepy, my friend use to do it, but still creepy

Answer 3

No, I don't think your wrong for saying that. He should u'stand how u feel. Just b'c it's him your saying it to doesn't make him any diff. Don't let him get to you. Next time just tell him to call before he come over. Your not living in the 1700's keep your door locked. Next time it might not be him standing over you. Stay safe!

Answer 4

Yes you are in the right.

I think your friend needs a little lesson on breaking & entering.

I mean what's he gonna do there when you're sleeping anyways?

If it wasn't such a big deal there wouldn't be a term and law for it!

Answer 5

Well, firstly what might have been the reason for his trying to barge into your house? Was he trying to give you a pleasant surprise for any special occasion?Was he trying to break in as you are not waking up even after repeated knocks and bell rings,phone calls. He might have got worried about your safety.If that is not the case , and he has some evil intentions(try to have forced s*x or assault you ) then definitely that is a threat.

However,it is not wrong to warn your friend about trying to break in.But just think about what was the scenario and why he tried to it as you know the best about what happened.

Answer 6

Is the argument about subject-verb agreement?

Answer 7

You are right. I would react too if someone came barging into my home. I would pity the fool. I have a crazy cat that attacks people he doesn't know that's if he feels threatened by them. Plus my husband is no little man either. :0D

Answer 8

Believe me! He wouldn't want to barge in on my sleep!

Answer 9

Uh, if this person thinks he has the right to ENTER your home whenever he wants, and refuses to understand why that's a problem, you need to stop being friends with him.

Yes, you have the right to control who is in YOUR home. You don't even need a reason, just not feeling like having anyone over is reason enough (though it's good to not SAY that, but be vague "Not a good time for me now.")

But your friend thinks you should lave your place unlocked at all times? Or that he can wake you up and barge in at any time?

This is NO friend (unless there was some compelling emergency, like he was walking by and was hit by a truck and needed you to call 911).

Answer 10

Your friend is wrong. Anybody that just walks into a house like that is asking to get serious hurt or serious dead. The person that lives in the house might react with deadly force and that will be the end of it.